Why don't people have sympathy for you if you been hurt a lot in your past relationships?

[Anonymous]

[Circlesgames]

Dependz on who, and how u tell this to, if your friends they probably have been warning u to leave, it's human nature to get tired of repeatation but some are cool with that they will still care for u even when angry at u, your new boyfriend.. If he doesn't care then he doesn't love u that deeply, and people due to society have this kind set now that u knew what u were getting into before u got there, especially men these days will say, was it not you that wanted to be with a bad guy, a rich guy, a strong guy, a poor guy, it's all jealousy and not maturity. Overall try to encourage yourself to be strong

[Rockstarrrrr]

Nobody forced you to be in those relationships... It was all by your choice so take responsibility for it and don't play the victim

[Asker]

People who are doing the dirt doesn't get hold accountable for anything I mean not trying to put all the blame on them sometimes you have no other choice but to leave them. Nobody made them to date you either people date people who they don't like all the time. If I was doing dirt on someone I know I get called out for it. Men get away with a lot more than women do. Especially the women who be taking men back for cheating when a woman cheats that is one and done no other chance.

[Rockstarrrrr]

You didn't add anything... Shitty people are still shitty people but it's your choice to be with them... Men get away with it because you keep giving them a chance to fuck you over (take back after cheating? Lol)... You're just backing up what I said... Oops I chose a scumbag because I'm so stupid can I get some sympathy? They're so bad.. Why did that happen to me? Oh I remember... From all the guys on the planet... I fuckin chose to be with them... Please no shaming.. Sympathy please 🥺🥺

[Asker]

You missed the approach I was trying to convey I'm saying that people are using other people not just you how come nobody calls them out for all the dirt they be doing to people. Wise ass

[Rockstarrrrr]

You asked about something and I answered it specifically and now I am a wise ass... Lol of course...

[Asker]

That is because a lot of people are dirty and nobody calls them out on it but calls the other person who gets screwed over a dumb ass. The con is a dumbass too for messing with other people's feelings without knowing the consequences. Some people are just wicked

[Rockstarrrrr]

What does that mean? They get called out for it... If they're not it's because people already know they're shitty so what point in stating the obvious lol

[Asker]

What is the point of critizing someone if they didn't do anything wrong to the other person and they could legit thought they would change. What your peoples problem is you all are assholes. You call one person out for falling for it.

[Asker]

The con artist is actually the one who needs to be called out.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Oh my gawd 🥺🥺... These assholes

[Asker]

You all call out a woman when she is in the wrong you all just want to take up for the man all the time. Even if the guy didn't know that she was going to cheat.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well personally I don't judge differently... I even roasted a friend who was in a relationship like that... Kept telling him how stupid he was lol

[Asker]

Yeah right I know how society is they are always judging the woman for wrong but ignore the man for it.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I agree but on this particular subject... Well you know my opinion

[Asker]

Well I think people's opinions suck because if It we're be conning people I wouldn't be getting away with it someone would say something to me about it. There are too many double standards against me.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Sorry?

[Asker]

That is why I stop dating men because all they want is sex I might as well date women if I want better results because I am sure not settling for an ugly man that I don't want that is the only men who won't cheat on you is the ugly ones.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Lol this is so true... Even ugly guys once they get an attractive girl they'll think they're hot shit and start pursuing other girls lol... I know it's super hard to find a guy who's not a player and also fairly attractive at the same time... There's far more quality women than men... But I don't think settling down for less is the best solution

[Aerolyn]

Because everybody gets hurt and your pain in nothing special to them, if I had to guess.

[Iron_Man]

Some people are selfish and just don’t care until they get a wake up call like the Scrooge

[Asker]

A lot of people try to use your weakness against they think that you are weak. You have to learn from your mistakes though people don't feel sorry for you if you keep making the same choices in general.

[Iron_Man]

Every situation is different I’m talking about in life general not just relationships

[Anonymous]

I guess it might be because at a certain point, you should have figured out the red flags.