Guys, What would you do if your friends with benefits started having feelings for you?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Okay let's just be honest here when you have a friends with benefits you like that person anyway that's the reason why you're having sex with them true or false thank you true

Each time that you make love have sex f*** screw you're with each other that Bond that relationship should get stronger because that's who we are as human beings we enjoy being with our friends with benefit because there are no strings attached there's no responsibilities there's nothing is what we love about it we can be ourselves without any commitment without any other emotion or feeling it is a real relationship it is the honest relationship it's a part of a relationship that you don't have when you are in a real relationship that's what's so beautiful about it because you have that chance to be free from all the b******* that comes with this s*** of course you're going to start falling deeper in love with somebody but that's when you have to stop and say hey what is our deal

I am single right now and whenever I'm single there are times where I have friends with benefits right now I don't but if I was to find somebody to become friends with benefits I would have my usual rule the moment you say I love you I miss you I need you I want you and it's over we have to stop everything because that's not where I want to go so did you guys make a deal in the beginning anything like what I just said if so you need to stop and talk about it because otherwise you're going to lose each other as a good friend

[FilmGuy93]

I'd ask her how she wanted things to evolve, and then honor her feelings to whatever extent I am able. Sometimes there are things you can do to honor and respect a woman without really changing the relationship you have with her. I would go so far as to say that most of the time, the woman doesn't even want/need some hardcore exclusive relationship with the man she's sleeping with to be extremely happy and satisfied with him, just so long as she feels loved, wanted, respected and cherished by him. Whatever factor prompted her to agree to friends with benefits still probably exists, so you just listen to her and work with what she's saying.

[Aerolyn]

Get annoyed because we agreed at the beginning that we wasn't gonna do that shit.

Now Imma have to cut you off because I don't feel the same way and you're gonna have to deal with heartbreak.

I say this out of experience, that friends with benefits stuff is fucking trash.

[D_Bone_Steak]

You got that experience just like I do. I can't help but wonder if we sound like total assholes to these people though. Just check my answer to see where I'm coming from... I just don't see why a friends with benefits needs to turn into something more. Now speaking from my own experience, most of those situations got started by them during a relationship they were cheating on to be with me. Why the fuck would I want to take her as my one and only... just for that shit to happen to me down the line? Hell no. They wanted sex and I did too... that's about as deep as it goes. No 'love' bullshit or whatever... the deal was kicked off for reasons much different than some relationship bullshit even though they have the sex part still involved.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Distance, re-establish the boundaries, and make sure she understands that her getting my dick doesn't mean I owe her jack shit. I don't care if you catch feelings, that's a you thing and nothing to do with me. The deal was made about sex... so keep it that way.

[Freedom007]

I guess, I would have to sit down, look inward, and ask myself how do I feel?
I have been in this situation, except, I was the one with more long term ideas and feelings than was she.
In short, it didn’t end well. She is now married to someone else. And I was hurt deeply at the time when she decided to move on.
In retrospect, I felt kind of used. In my years of experience, friends with benefits never really works out.
For me, either she is my girlfriend, or she is just a friend. And I need to decide that very early on in the relationship.

[Light909090]

Depends If she’s Beautiful and she’s a Good friend of mine and has been nice to me and there for me then Yeah I’d Fuck her and I think it’s better to become friends with a Girl before having Sex with a girl as a way to avoid An STD or other extremely dangerous disease 🦠 that will Cause a funeral to happen

[spacepirate64]

Boys crave friends with benefits. Men want a fuckin wife. The fact women will act like prejudice antifazi girls, is a testament they need to put the fuckin cell phone out of it's misery.

[Ironic_Method]

Establish boundaries... which I'm generous with as I like to make my partners happy. But ultimately it's going to be on them if they want to continue or not.

If I like them and my wife likes them then there's triad potential.

[TheSpaceGnome]

She would need to already have very strong, monogamous, committed feelings for me in order for her to get those particular kinds of "benefits", so this scenario isn't possible for me.

[Caliguy88]

Depends on how I felt. My longest girlfriend started as that. But if my friends with benefits that I kinda see now started liking me I’d put some distance there. That can go anyway for many reasons.

[Vanidal]

Break the deal, discuss, start again.

Better on the clear about this.

[Drumlin2001]

Depends. If I actually thought there could be something maybe give it a go. If it were only some fun I'd probably walk away

[Kaneki05]

I give what I get so I would start feeling stuff back and want them as they want me.

[Guy13]

If he catches feelings then you will be reeling with animosity ⁉️

[Hardworkingguy]

I'd see if we had chemistry or anything in common. Since we're having sex it means we find each other attractive so that part is a given

[Juxtapose]

If I like her enough to be fucking her chances are I would like her enough to date her.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

friends with benefits, is pathetic, and people who do it, are losers, with no lives

[clampfan101]

I don’t want a friends with benefits. If it’s not a LTR, it’s just friendship.

[SmokinAces2000]

If I liked them enough I would get into a relationship with them

[Jltakk]

I'd be flattered that i even had a friend with benefits in the first place.

[red324]

I know women are so uptight about that shit nowadays.

[spartan55]

Thanks for coming, it's been nice!

[Fuentes]

Block and move on

[driven159]

that is bound to happen after time

[Anonymous]

This isn't possible.

[Anonymous]

Cut her loose.

[Jamesshinobi]

id wed them

[Anonymous]

I cut off...

[jimmy2]

No worries

[Anonymous]

Cum inside

[Light909090]

Oh yeah cause that always Turns out Great