Friends with benefits acted like my boyfriend and then told me he has been seeing other girls, how do you even react to this?

[Anonymous]

friends with benefits and I have been texting everyday for months now. We were more so acting like we were in a relationship. Now I say this bc HE told me multiple times that he did not want me to see other guys. We got into an argument and he told me he has been hooking up with a bunch of girls, I don't know if he was serious or said that in the moment bc he was mad. However, I just don't even know what to say to that. Honestly, I am just so disappointed. I know we were not officially dating but like don't act like you're my boyfriend and then do other things behind my back.

[HelpMe06]

I was originally going to say if it was classed as friends with benefits from the beginning then sleeping with other people is fine. However, the fact that he has told you that you can’t see other people while he is is super fucked up. If I was you I would tell him if he doesn’t want you sleeping with other people then he needs to make a commitment to you that he won’t either. If he can’t have the same respect for you that you do for him then bin him!

[Fanfare690]

Dont react that's exactly what he wants
he's bitch made sweety

[Fanfare690]

he's made no commitment to you. Dont be shocked if he sleeps with other women

[Wise4myage]

Dump his ass and move on to better things.