How do you know you’re have a negative affect on my boyfriend? How do I make it up without annoying him with also giving him space?

[bbhhgirl]

I do have a lot of negative going on in my life. I think that I am starting to stress my boyfriend out with it. I’m to the point I want to stop complaining to him and start being happy and figuring things out on my own. And when I need his help just ask ,

[BadGirlGoodWomen]

You have just answered your own question hun! People can only tolerate so much of someone constantly unloading there problems and issues on them whether they love the person or not.
Start asking him once day if he is ok and and listen to him without turning the conversation around onto your issues.
So many people say that writing instead of saying it is one of the most therapeutic ways of releasing your troubles. So people keep what they have written, some burn it and some bin it straight after also writing a short letter to your boyfriends letting him no how grateful you are and what a good listener he is etc etc... He will love that!

[Wise4myage]

Giving him space would help, but you should be talking to him too at some point.

[bbhhgirl]

Yeah I figured a little space would help him but he told me told he still wants to have breakfast with me but other than that everything is okay but I don’t believe him I think my drama is affecting him now and I want to stop

[Wise4myage]

Then focus on ending the drama.

[bbhhgirl]

Thank you

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome.

[In_Trance]

have a conversation with him about it