How do I know if my boyfriend is using me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend met online
-before we meet we texted and talked on the phone he told me he loved me and so did I.
-he was going abroad for a long time , so I insisted to meet him before he leaves at least once but he didn't meet me saying he was so stressed about leaving.
-then suddenly after 4 months , he stopped texting me because he went abroad, I then became depressed.
-then there was a problem in his visa , after a week , they sent him back home then he texted me again.
-he was devasted, even though he hurt me I was with him in that bad moment.
-then we met in real life , on my birthday which he didn't remember , he touched me and tried to kiss me on first day of meeting (we sexted before).
-then I would do all his assignements for him.
-on valentine he didn't get me anything
-he never compliments me and never takes me on dates (we meet in a place where it's me and him , and he always gets sexual with me )
-I always told him let's break up but he always and always tells me he loves me so much...
Do you think he is using me?
What should I say to him?
Should I stay with him because he says he loves me?

[Jahizamy]

A lot of red flags already being verbalized.

Seems like he is using you majorly and he keeps doing it because you let him.

At this point, you know his real character, just go elsewhere.

And don't worry if he gives you the sob story, remember, actions speak louder than words.