If my girl buys food for another guy and insists she pays should I be worried?

[Evandever]

my girlfriend who I trust very much bought sushi for her coworker and herself who she knows I don't like because he hit on her in the past. He ended up paying her back but should I worry or am I over-exaggerating?

[Light909090]

He hit on her she buys him sushi she knows you don’t like him and she buys him sushi whicu means she likes him and wasn’t offended by his Attempt to hit on her and he made it up to her by paying her back
Did you see Him pay her back with cash 💵? Or did she tell you he paid her back because pal paying someone back can take many forms whether it’s cash doing someone a favor like in this case He hit on her she buys him sushi they clearly both like each other and considering the Fact that


Those we trust are the ones that are more likely to hurt us


Your girlfriend is cheating oh man dude What a real bummer she won’t admit it though She will never admit to because by admitting it that she cheated on you she will lose you and She won’t do that because in her mind she loves you and cares about you and therefore would not admit to cheating because that would mean she would lose you.

[Evandever]

this comment was great thank you and i did log into her snap and its nothing i just overthink when he "hit on her" he asked her what her ideal first date and she said what we did for ours so he knew i was with her and all her messages to her friends are just good things about me not to sound vein but i was over thinking

[Guy13]

So, your girlfriend continues to hangout with a guy that came onto her WHILE dating you... Does that sound right to you?

[Evandever]

well he asked what an ideal first date would be and then she said what me and hers first date was she said he hasn't tried anything since

[Guy13]

One does not eat and digest food with another willingly if that other person is not soothing in some way. There is some degree of attraction or acceptance there... How did you find out about this?

[Evandever]

they get along i know that. it came up when she said her sushi was really bad for the price and that she is annoyed but not too annoyed because jair (her cowerker) and herself were full.

[Guy13]

Alright... at least she was not hiding it like she knew she was doing wrong... or had wrong intentions. It sounds like all is well. As long as Jair is not texting her outside of work contact then it sounds normal. Good luck with your girl !!

[Evandever]

yeah they don't text i check so I'm just overthinking thank you

[dustybiker]

If you love her trust her. “He ended up paying her back.” This makes me believe it was not a date thing. That is a respectful act. Something a friend would do. I wouldn’t worry about this.

[dustybiker]

*Date/lover thing

[Evandever]

okay thank you but now im in the dog house

[dustybiker]

Make an unwarranted accusation?

[Evandever]

i just asked if she paid for his food and she said no that she tried to but he kept saying he would pay

[dustybiker]

That is a little weird. Makes you wonder why she didn’t just let him pay for his own himself regardless. “Kept asking” is unusual. I wouldn’t keep asking my friends. Now I’m overthinking it and don’t know either of you.

[Agape93]

Nope. I buy food for my friends pretty often when ever we go out somewhere

[Jamesshinobi]

she's only telling you so you get mad at her so she doesn't feel bad about fucking him. its over bro. she just hasn't told you yet.

[Evandever]

okay well this is definitely true but thank you for your imput

[nawtee_me]

Trust her... more importantly if a girl you worked with did not have money for lunch would you buy lunch for her?

[Evandever]

I wouldn't if i knew that my girlfriend didn't like that person

[Avicenna]

Did she tell you why she did it?

[Evandever]

yes so she didn't hide it

[In_Trance]

what are you worried about?