So this guy has been staring at me for a while. I actually noticed him because he always stares at me. sometimes he will even smile. In large crowds he always caught my eye somehow. Eventually In my mind im like 'okay this can't continually be a coincidence'. So that's when I was aware of his existence. I looked into him online and our friend circles are different but they overlap. His friends always speak to me and say hello but he never does. One day I looked into my story views and saw him on the list. I didn't know we were following each other online. I am on social media a lot and I post on my stories frequently. I sometimes post long stories and he would watch every single one. This has been going on for months now. One time he even put a heart in my story replies. But he's never approached me when we are both in the same places. Is he into me? is he shy? I mean I wouldn't reject him if he approached me.
Seems like you want him to want you and he probably finds you fascinating too. I guess I'm too old to read meaning into all of these things but one thing is certain, there is some kind of interest there. Whether it is the good kind, is another question.
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It sounds like he’s infatuated with the idea of you he has in his head; the one pieces together from what he’s read of your online posting. Parasocial relationships rarely turn out well when they become real relationships. If you wanna engage with him just be aware that he probably already knows a version of you that he might be disappointed to find out isn’t reality.
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Most guys do give a sign of love by looking at their crush, so I think he likes you, most of them are shy
Definitely seem to have caught his eye.
It appears like he does like you.
He has an interest in you at least.
He's just being nosey
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Probably so
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