Would you be okay with your wife or girlfriend going out in revealing clothing?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[DaveJord]

As long as it is tasteful, and still done in a classy way. I would not want her doing it on a day to day bases, but for specials occasions I would be fine with it. Only way a guy is not okay with that is if he has trust issues or is insecure with himself or within the relationship. For example I love when I go to the beach and my SO wears a super sexy bathing suit... makes the day a lot more fun to me and I don't care if other guys look, because she is with me.

Yes I know that other men would give her more attention and maybe hit on her behind my back... but if I trust her then I am not worried about it. I hope she would only do it when we are together, and not be putting her self out there like that all the time. But in the end if that is how she dressed when you meet her and started dating her then you have no right to tell her how to dress, or expect her to stop just because she started dating you.

Now if she never did this ever before, and then she just up and started doing it for no apparent reason... then yeah I would have an issue, because its and indicator of other potential relationship problems.

[Lionman95]

I´m not feeling well with that if she wants to go to the mall or something similar, it´s different if we go to the beach or pool. It also depends on how much she´s showing off because there are limits to it. The following is rather meant concerning a highly revealing outfit:
You can call me what you want because of it I don´t care. Firstly because everybody knows that a woman in revealing clothes is the center of attention of many people either male or female. So her going out like that means she´s willing to risk that, she knows and she does it anyways.
It´s a sign that she needs more than my or her friends, family´s attention. I´m not interested in spending an afternoon fighting of some guys that felt provoked to some weird actions through her behavior. Like I´m a guy and I know how weird guys act if they aroused and horny.
For me it´s therefore a sign that it´s about her and not us and that I might have chosen the wrong woman because our relationship is going downhill.
I´m not a sexual interested or active guy.

[Emiliamazing]

We all have different definitions of revealing, but my husband has never said anything regarding my choice of attire when I have a girls night out once a month or so. We both trust each other and that’s all that is really needed. I would say that what I consider someone revealing is probably pretty vanilla or neutral compared to some photos that I see on this platform.

[bubblegunnn]

Nope. If i was a man i would asked my woman to dress appropriate, so she can respect her pride

[Finchie40]

I guess it would come down to how she dresses on a regular basis around me , , if she barely dresses in revealing clothing then all of a sudden dresses revealing to go out with her girlfriends making her boobs stand out etc then that to me is a red flag that she is seeking validation from other men to the point it’s disrespectful to the relationship Most girls have the mindset that her man is insecure and doesn’t trust her and that’s where she is wrong , it has nothing to do with that , it comes down to respect for the relationship, When a girl is trying to draw attention to herself when her partner isn’t around then that’s a girl you should kick to the curb , she is just using you until something better comes along , taking you for granted , a partner that needs validation from opposite sex people os not good relationship partners , they are usually selfish and only care about themselves, Someone that values you will distant themselves from that shit to keep fire away from the relationship, when a partner can’t do that for you it’s time to move on from them and find someone that knows what it means to be in a relationship , we can’t force someone to love us we can only love them the way we want to be loved , If they can’t love you the same then you need to value yourself worth and let them go , never be taken for granted , if her friends are her priority let them have her and you go do your own thing

[BodeLovesHisGirl]

It’s a respect and protection thing. I have been single so I know what guys are thinking, whether you want them to look at you or not, they are going to, so it would be respectful to cover yourself if you know people are going to stare. I go to the gym a lot and even tho my girlfriend never says it, she has made some comments about how she would prefer me to wear less revealing clothing at the gym. She’s never said it straight forward but I’ve got the jist of it. Since then I wear a hoodie and sweats tot he gym. I have taken down all of my gym posts on instagram as well. I wear modest clothing when I’m out when I’m with her and not. But when I’m just around her and we are not out and about I wear more revealing clothing for her because I know she likes to look at me as much as I like to look at her. I like to show her that she’s special. (Now I’ve been having problems with this with her because she thinks I’m controlling and a horrible boyfriend when I ask tell her her clothes are super revealing, especially when it’s to concerts and things that I’m not at)

[Oigit]

It's not as straight forward as you might think. The clothing itself isn't am issue. It's how guys can act that is the issue. Because their are guys out there that are only capable of thinking with the head in their paints. So even if you tell them that she is with you, they will continue to attempt to pick her up. Even if you are standing right next to her.

So for me and many other men it's less about forcing a girl to dress like she is going to church and more about avoiding a fight. Because there is only so many times a guy is going to tell another guy to back off before they swing.

[hahahmm]

This is actually two questions from my POV. I wanted girlfriends to be more revealing but NOT looking like a street whore. With the wife, I want her to dress nice but not look like she's on the market. It's not the same thing.

Also.. before I considered my future wife to be 'wife material' she was already dressing more conservative. It's not like she went from looking like she's trying to attract 100 dudes to looking like she's off the market in 1 day.

[Dennisnky]

I mean it kind of depends on how revealing and where we're going. I wouldn't want to go to a work function with her dressed like I paid for her company lol but if she looks classy then it's okay

[RavVid]

Depends where. If she is accompany me to a party not a problem. If it is a girls night out I would be probably unhappy if the outfit was designed to attract male attention.

[AviatorTom]

Not if it's too revealing. I would tell her I didn't like what she was wearing but I wouldn't stop her. What she wears should be respectful... of herself and our relationship.

[Anonymous]

I would prefer she doesn't because I know how men can be but in all reality she is an independent person so she can do as she pleases now would I really like her to listen to me, yes that would be amazing but I wouldn't feel right demanding her to do what I want

[SnowedIn]

Totally okay with it. But time and place and contact matter... for instance a mini skirt and sheer blouse with no bra is not funeral attire.

[jshm2]

Depends on the reasons.

You have to be insecure or stupid to just wear revealing clothing for the hell of it.

[genericname85]

depends on the context. i wouldn't want her to go to a formal meeting or a funeral like that. though a more informal party/festival type thing is fine.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but if she gets cold later she can eat s*** if she thinks I'm loaning her my coat. You don't want to dress accordingly you can freeze. How else she gonna learn.

[Anonymous]

I won't tell my wife or girlfriend what to wear, but that doesn't matter because I would not be a husband or boyfriend to the type of woman who would even want to go out in revealing clothing.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Same here. The kind of woman I am interested in are the kinds that are modest and classy.

[imjustadude]

She can do whatever if she looks like the girl in the picture.

[Havthrills]

I have no problem with it. I would actually love it.

[Asker]

You would like other men drooling over your so?
Wouldn't you feel some possessiveness

[Havthrills]

I would feel proud that my so is that hot. They can glance, no staring maybe a little, definitely no touch.

[KittyBox]

Why would this bother me? It's not like just because she's in revealing clothing that she's going to start flashing everyone she sees.

[Zolly99999]

If I'm truly in love then I trust her completely... because once broken then she is gone and if she values me then we both have nothing to worry about.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, my girl (s) can wear whatever she/they want.

[Kelly6]

My hubby is ok with me showing more skin or see through dress

[panamared1]

good man

[AndrésC64]

Well, I guess I would be okay with it up to a certain point. But what I'm okay with is really irrelevant. She can wear what she wants.

[Anonymous]

Sure, yeah. My girlfriend's daily attire usually consists of short shorts and a tiny crop top

[TroyDT]

I live at the beach so I am accustomed to having little left to the imagination.

[Jackblue]

I might not like it, but ultimately I can't control her.

[msc545]

Depends on where they were going and how revealing the clothes were.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Too much, no. I believe you can dress sexy without looking like a cheap corner street hooker.

[Chthou95]

What's the purpose for a woman to be wearing revealing clothing other than getting attention

[summiter]

Of course. It is her choice and her body.

[Anonymous]

I am never getting a wife. So no answer.

[Pudsmucker]

Only a round me.

[Snedger____]

Depends on the place.

[Guardian45]

Depending on person and context.

[gerald5466]

it's her choice you can't really stop her

[hahahmm]

Ha ha ha. Bro, you've been brainwashed by feminists and/or dudes who have no power in their home.

[Mediterraneansoul]

What is purpose of revealing clothes

[BLP11520]

Don't want guys eyeballing my wife

[Kaneki05]

Obviously

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Context

[BJP21]

Expression is sexy.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

I wouldn't

[jamartheg]

Why not?

[Anonymous]

No who would?