I worry about placing boundaries whn people violate my boundaries and I feel uncomfortable because I think I might need their help one day. What do i?

[Rkfjfud7]

What can i do?

I am a huge pushover 24 7. I get really angry in private over how I get treated. Then I think of ways to set boundaries whether verbally or by my actions and then I worry the person won't like me or will hate me and become an enemy to me and then i worry that i may need their help such as if we work together and maybe i need their help with something and they're the only one around... It would be awkward or worse if i had set a boundary and they dislike me yet now i wanted their help.

[ohsheeT]

Okay so when I read your question I'm hearing two different things or I could be reading into it what are the boundaries that they are crossing I tried to send you a private message but it wouldn't allow me to you can DM me if you want to but there are certain boundaries that are not that big of a deal but there are some boundaries that are hella big deal and that's the ones I'm curious about and I have an answer for both of them believe me but I need to know what I'm talking about and which boundaries you're talking about

[Rkfjfud7]

Ok let me add you now

[richgentlem4n]

Who cares what they say? Do what makes you happy.

[Anonymous]

You feel that way because its new to you, but that will fade with experience.