My bilingual Colombian boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) cheated with my friend (ex friend) for several months. Obviously that's a break-up. I dumped the friend too.
I admitted to calling him a racist name but I was so angry and hurt that I've wasted time that I didn't care anymore. I don't hate the race. I hated the person that did the wrong. I have no problems with other people, provided they do no serious offense.
But was I still wrong or not?