I just turned 32 and I am completely single... is there much hope for me to find love and have a family?

[Anonymous]

[BeMuse]

Hope is a personal thing. Either you are confident in yourself and have an optimistic outlook or you don't. If you don't, then work on it. Have a never give up attitude... That aside, ask yourself are you physically attractive? Are you in shape? Are you mentally stable? Are you an interesting person? Is your life stable? Have realistic expectation about the sort of people you will attract in your current state. Work on sprucing yourself up if you need some work... It's never too late to find someone special. I've seen people in their 70s getting married...

[BeMuse]

That said women only have until menopause to knock out a kid or two so don't fall asleep if you want that in your life...

[MarkRet]

I just answered a question like this, which then led me here. I'll just copy and paste my answer here:

When I was in my twenties I was withdrawn, depressed, felt that I was so ugly, had few friends, and never had any relationships, because I thought women hated me. At the time I figured relationships just weren't going to happen for me, so I started doing my own thing, doing things I always wanted to do, like ice skating lessons, etc. It all expanded my horizons, gave me a feeling of self-confidence, and I broke out of a lot of shells. Relationships with women just seemed to start happening for me, and even though I didn't know what the hell I was doing, I learned along the way. I ended up getting married a few years later. I wasn't 'forever' alone, but I also didn't worry about it, and things just happened anyway. Expand your horizons, and stay positive!

[DeviantGir]

I myself am not a love guru, so from one single person to another. It honestly just depends. I could give the usual speech about putting yourself out there, trying new hobbies, checking out dating apps, etc... You've probably heard some of these strats before. But, I'm not even certain of what will or won't work for you. Everybody's different.

All I can say for sure is that it's indeed possible to meet someone still. This is solely because I've know or met people around your age and older who've recently found a romantic partner.

[Rania05]

There's always time, don't you see people in their 40s marrying for the first time around?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Talk about being over the hill, 32? Oh shit! On the flip side you may be over the hill however you are under the mountain. As for love it can kick you in the ass when you least expect it & if you want to meet people you have to get out & greet people.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Question 1: Your looks, on a scale of 1 to 10 are you still marketable?

Question 2: How come you're single? Career? Having fun with the wrong types of men?

I'm not trying to pry but those are the sort of details needed to assess what exactly is going on with you. I've seen women your age pick up men really easy in some cases, but you asking this question at all instead of out with a guy right now has me wondering... what's really going on?

[Joe-12345]

Absolutely there is. Get yourself out there. Church, dating app. Be social and I would argue to do things physically, rather than browse your phone. Dating apps are fine, but join something social and pray about it.😌

[Drumlin2001]

Yep. I was single till 35, hadn't done anything. 5 years on I'm engaged with 2 kids.
There's no reason you can't change things if you really want to. It's a hard road of self reflection and pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone

[Anonymous]

There’s always hope. Maybe not as much Al compared to your younger years but there’s still some hope so long as you have it. May I ask why you’re single at 32? Focused on your career? Education?

[mr4435669]

No, children must be had before the age of 30. During her youth she had to look for a husband, because she was more attractive and she could find better suitors.

[FilmGuy93]

Of course there's hope. You have to take a hard look at how you live your life though.

[astep]

Yes, there is always a hope. 32 is just a number, there persons I know that were much older than 32 when they found their love and start a family

[Anonymous]

Get a high-IQ sperm donor like all the other women in your situation.

[LimitedBenefits101]

You hit the wall, it will be very hard for you unless you wanna date 50+ years old men

[Twalli]

You can, you just need a guy who doesn't care about having kids.

[Anonymous]

Not if you're too lazy to do anything about it. Closed mouths don't get fed.

[jackinoff]

I dunno. I'm sure there is someone out there for you

[nawtee_me]

would you like to go out?

[Anonymous]

Are you saying that you've never dated?

[Anonymous]

yeah there's always hope

[AsaKyo]

Of course

[Anonymous]

Of course, a lot

[jjj101010]

There’s time