We have been back together but what he said keeps replaying in my head. does his daughters not really like me or what?

[millyneenee]

My boyfriend was really upset with me and he said something that really cut me deep he said “ my fucking family is falling apart because I keep choosing you”. He has two teenage daughters and one 5 year old son

[WhitneySnow]

I think he’s telling the truth. Or at least he thinks his daughters don’t like you. It sounds like he’s a lot older than you. Speaking from experience, I can tell you a lot of times the guy’s teen daughters don’t like him dating a much younger woman, especially when they see that woman as replacing their mother.

[millyneenee]

Yes he is 43 I am 24 , it has been on my mind heavy because I asked him what does he mean , and have he been feeling like this? I don’t know what to do.

[WhitneySnow]

I think he means his daughters don’t like him dating someone so much younger. Not personal against you. I get why they feel that way.

[Anonymous]

I think you made a mistake getting back together with that guy. And he should have apologized.

[millyneenee]

That’s the thing he didn’t apologize and it has been on my mind heavy because is this how you really been feeling about me? Like I have so many questions but scared to ask.

[Opinion Owner]

You have every right to ask him about this. I would ask him why he wanted to get back together if he feels that negatively about you.

[millyneenee]

And that’s what I’m saying , anger will really bring out the truth. Like why would you say that and I think every day about this now.

[Opinion Owner]

You need answers, so don't be afraid to ask.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

And yet you keep going back to him

[Anonymous]

yeah his kids don't like you