Does he miss me? why is he still with his rebound girl?

Question

Me and my boyfriend were dating for almost 2 years. we were rocky for about a month and a half. I brought up going on a break, and then we mutually broke up, but I found out he had cheated on me a couple weeks before. for someone reason after this I still wanted him back, but we decided it wouldn't work. 2 weeks after our 2 year relationship ended he is already dating again and its the girl he cheated on me with, which happens to be my best friend, or she was my best friend. I stopped annoying him about the situation and we didn't talk for a month while they were dating. then recently he started contacting me and I finally gave in and talked to him and he said how sorry he was and how he still thinks about me all the time. and yet he's still with his rebound? he clearly still thinks about me but why doesn't he just end it with her, because he knows I won't talk to him while he's with her?

Glamgoddess · Accepted Answer

I don't know you but I can tell you that there are some very large underlying issues within you. Why would you desire someone who cheats on you in the lowest, most disgusting and "integrity-defunct" way? If he could do this to you, what else is he capable of? I personally think that you might have a desire to "win". You feel like you have "lost" to your ex-friend. But all you lost was a REALLY BIG FRGGIN HEADACHE! You don't really want someone like that in your life, do you? If he did that to you after 2 years of dating you, imagine what he might do to her! And believe me when I tell you, "the same way you get your man is the same way you lose him". That horrible ex-friend of yours has got hell to pay when karma catches up with her. Dump both of those zeroes and find yourself some heroes! Good luck, doll! :)

EliBaby · Accepted Answer

I have a little experience with these rebound girls. And although it's hard, I wouldn't advise you to be getting back together with this guy. Two years is a long time together, yes. But the fact that he went with your ex best friend before AND after the mutual break up makes him a complete zero.

I don't think that's there's anything wrong with just talking to him, but getting back together with him is just setting you up for another heart break.

But, if he still thinks about you and misses you...then why would he let you go so easily before and try to come crawling back later?

nicelilsprout · Accepted Answer

Your ex sucks, and so does your ex-best friend.  What the f*** ever happened to broes before hoes?

ser123 · Accepted Answer

I hope you really do take my advice.  I know a little something about this.  I won't go into great detail, But... If he is so much in love with you and he madly misses you, Then Why isn't he with you right now?  That's right he is with the other girl. Confused maybe,  That's a huge maybe,  you are the girl he knows he can always go back too.  He cheated on you with your Best friend.  That right there is enough to say, "its over".  It's a game,   Its called Push N Pull.  You distance yourself from a person and once there about to get over you you pull them back in and give them hope. Move on.  There are plenty of men out there that want to be with you,  I'm so sure of it.

Ariosoto · Accepted Answer

It sounds like the man is confused, he doesn't know what he wants anymore and he's talking to you to hopefully find an answer. Its really what he decides he wants which is either going to be you or the girl he is with now. He's only with his rebound right now because he is playing it safe and doesn't want to lose everything, but when he know he wants you then he will almost instantly leave her.

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