I have problems in my relationship?

[danavas]

I have problems in my relationship. my partner doesn't hear me very often. and i don't know how many deadlines to set for my patience. has anyone set themselves such a time frame? did things work out over time?

[caring__1]

If a partner doesn't hear us, it's either due to our own dysfunctional communication patterns or the partner's lack of interest. It's important to know which we're talking about, as one is within our control and the other isn't. To move forward, only focus on what is within your control. If how we word things tends to put the other on the defensive, learn and apply effective communication skills. If the other isn't interested, this generally isn't a relationship worth holding onto. Setting deadlines on others just adds pressure on the other person and leads to greater defensiveness. It's showing you are entitled to be inconsiderate of the other, while the other isn't entitled to be inconsiderate of you.

[SayCheez03]

I think its best to cut a relationship where there is a lack of communication.

Especially if its constant?

Could you help me as well?