I have a few questions about the situation I am in currently. I met a guy through one of our mutual friends a few months ago. We hit it off and started dating after talking for a bit. I had to move out of where I was living when I met him. He said I could stay with him. We were living on his work property for a while and I thought things were going well. Then about a week ago his boss ( a female) told me I had to leave and pack my s**t. I asked if my boyfriend could take me over to his friend's house because I had only met him once before. She said no get your stuff I am taking you!!. I tried to find my boyfriend and talk to him about what was going on but could not find him. She dropped me and all my stuff on the street corner by his friend's house. Told me he will come to get me when he gets off work! It's been a week he won't answer text or calls from me and won't come over to his friends either. I don't understand why he did this and why he just left me on the streets in a place I don't know or know anyone. What would make someone do that to another person? Why won't he talk to me for at least closure? I am really hurt and pissed off at this. If you were in this spot what would you do? How would you handle the feeling of being alone with nothing? If you were my boyfriend why would u do this to your girlfriend? I just need to get someone's else view on this sense I can't get him to say anything to me? It's like I don't exist anymore? Help me understand this please!!
I think you just found out that his real girlfriend found out about you. He got caught and is trying to save his ass by throwing you to the wolves.. THe best you can do is pick yourself up and dust yourself off because nobody else is going to help you but you I am not trying to be harsh here I wish I could help you by saying I have room but I do not. Please learn more about men because some can be pretty shitty in the long run
I am thinking maybe the same way you are. But the thought of it gross he is 33 and she is like 70's maybe early 80's and has a hubby living with her at the work site.. so I don't know maybe and at this point don't really care anymore. Think I was just mad and hated the fact I had fell for such a dumb game that everyone seems to be playing these days. I know I am a good loving person just tend to fall easily and guys these days tend to know what to say to get what they want from a chick. If I ever find someone who can see through all my scars and walls I have then that would be amazing. I was either built different or raised different then everyone else. I don't care about how u look or what you have or how many friends u have. I never get involved with someone just to gain something. Not my thing. Just feel dumb for allowing this dumb dude close to me and stuff. I am almost to the point of just giving up on finding my other half. Maybe I was meant to be by myself. Lol I am taking this lesson and time to heal and build myself back up to where I should be. You can't love or accept anyone else if you don't love and accept yourself.
You didn’t have to leave your boyfriend invited you over there you you have squatters rights anyway your boyfriend’s acting real strange by ignoring your text and calls
I didn't leave my boyfriend anywhere he chose to leave me. His boss left me on a street corner with my stuff.. where did u get i left him.. and no he isn't even my boyfriend anymore. He can't be if he won't talk or come to see me to figure this out. I held on as long as I could to the idea of this working but in the long run I had to do what was need to for myself. He would of dragged me to who knows where and down to god knows where too. I had to let go to save myself from being sucked into and still in a place that no one should ever be in.. Do I like having to let go absolutely not but after all the time that went by and he couldn't or wouldn't reach out to me let me know his true colors and intentions with me. So I had to do it.
What is there yo help understand? He allowed a female to throw you out and hasn’t reached out to you in a week! You want closure? YOU HOT IT MOVE ON! Don’t waste your time and energy on someone who treats you bad! LOVE YOURSELF~ Black and delete him don’t be stupid
I am not being stupid and let go of him already. So I know he is not something I would want to keep around was just looking for a different view of why he did this for and how come he couldn't man up and explain himself as to why he did it and how he could ditch me on a street corner with out knowing where I was or know anyone.. not expecting shit from him already gave and wasted too much on his dumb ass just curious on someone else view...
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