It’s not necessarily cheating. People have personal information on their emails and then banking is very sensitive so even I wouldn’t want anyone to have my password though I don’t have any boys on my contact list.
No of course not, he just that lazy to have the same password for everything else including banking? That’s the not so smart part of it all, but definitely not a red flag
You should keep in mind that you are his girlFRIEND, not his wife. He is 100% entitled to his privacy, especially banking amongst the others. So no, this is not a red flag.
No it's not a red flag. You're just a girlfriend, and it's just smart that he wouldn't give out an important password to someone who statistically speaking will not still be in his life in 10 years.
I don't think you need to have something to hide, just because you want your right to privacy.
Even if I trust people fully, I still value my privacy.
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God what the fuck is it with women wanting to know every little detail and facet of your life? It’s like you all feel entitled to know goddamn everything. It’s really weird and very unattractive.
He did the right thing. He needs to protect personal information, even if he is transparent with you it'd be foolish to give you that trust for essentially no reason
Its not a big deal.. boyfriend girlfriend still need privacy as well
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That's what I did too. I made a new password for my girlfriend and I to use on all our shared things, but my bank account stuff is mine. If we get married then that's a different story
He doesn't want you to go through all his stuff. The only reason you'd need access is if you don't trust him. I wouldn't want someone having easy access to my banking, email, or admin Facebook.
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It’s not necessarily cheating. People have personal information on their emails and then banking is very sensitive so even I wouldn’t want anyone to have my password though I don’t have any boys on my contact list.
You should give me your password to your email, facebook, banking, etc... I mean you have nothing to hide, right?
You have the logic of a Nigerian scammer. The only person showing a red flag here is you.
No that's smart of him and you should respect those boundaries
Yeah sure, why wouldn't he want to share his banking password... you are crazy
No of course not, he just that lazy to have the same password for everything else including banking?
That’s the not so smart part of it all, but definitely not a red flag
You should keep in mind that you are his girlFRIEND, not his wife. He is 100% entitled to his privacy, especially banking amongst the others. So no, this is not a red flag.
No it's not a red flag. You're just a girlfriend, and it's just smart that he wouldn't give out an important password to someone who statistically speaking will not still be in his life in 10 years.
Your boyfriend shouldn't be using the same password for everything. He is asking to get hacked.
Also Netflix is cracking down on password sharing
I don't think you need to have something to hide, just because you want your right to privacy.
Even if I trust people fully, I still value my privacy.
God what the fuck is it with women wanting to know every little detail and facet of your life? It’s like you all feel entitled to know goddamn everything. It’s really weird and very unattractive.
Yes, it sounds like a Red Flag I would ask him questions, makes no sense.
He was absolutely right. Why on Earth would he give you his password to his emails, social media, and especially BANKING? What is wrong with you?
He did the right thing. He needs to protect personal information, even if he is transparent with you it'd be foolish to give you that trust for essentially no reason
Nobody has NOTHING to hide. You're overreacting.
Sounds right to me…. Banking needs to change but the rest…. no issues for me
Wrong, sharing all your account passwords is stupid.
"if he had nothing to hide then he should have ZERO problem sharing it"
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Its not a big deal.. boyfriend girlfriend still need privacy as well
That's what I did too. I made a new password for my girlfriend and I to use on all our shared things, but my bank account stuff is mine. If we get married then that's a different story
He doesn't want you to go through all his stuff. The only reason you'd need access is if you don't trust him. I wouldn't want someone having easy access to my banking, email, or admin Facebook.