Can it be called love?

[stredadnezz]

I can like someone and empathize and feel physically attracted to the person but if they Die i wouldn't shed a tear. Can it be called love?

[Guy13]

It sounds like you are mirroring another who physically is attracted to you and is demonstrating empathy. Do you or has anyone ever asked, "why did you react that way?"... cracking a joke and laughing at a funeral for instance?

It does not mean that you do not feel those things but it is likely that you do not empathize first. What you are getting out of the modelling is emotional but more closely described as Attention.

About the "no care if she dies". Typically, this is because you really do not love them as forming an emotional bond for one with traits of a sociopath is very difficult. You can love and empathize as well as mirror those in groups... when it involves you directly but for those who are outside your sphere of influence they or society as a whole do not register.

What goes on with you when your girlfriends gets mad at you?

[Wise4myage]

Sounds more like lust to me.