Why you girl’s should not cheat on your men?

[Finchie40]

This is coming from my own philosophy based off of what i witnessed and experienced with Girls, Don’t get me wrong all cheating is horrible considering it’s a selfish act , but the difference between a guy cheating and a girl cheating is the fact that when a guy cheats he is mainly cheating because his girl at home is constantly nagging at him and withholding sex from him like it’s a bargaining agreement , When a girl cheats she is cheating because she finds another man more desirable , she is drawn to his status comparing her man to the new man but little do girls realize is when they are cheating on their man the chances of the new man keeping her and loving her is out the window , The new man is just loving the fact that he has this new girl sucking and riding his cock but he will not commit to her , he is playing her like no tomorrow , when a guy cheats on his girl he is more than likely going to end up with the new girl and have a happy relationship , So girls stop cheating on your men, you are being used cuz no guy is going to fully commit to a girl that cheated on her partner , if he does he has issues

[Guy13]

Yep, when girls cheat it is because their emotional commitment has switched to another guy and she is emotionally disconnected from husband... It takes two people to fix this kind of thing...

[wittymilf]

🤔 I don’t know if you grasp the reasons why a woman might look to form a relationship with another man.

[Finchie40]

I know there are other reasons as well but Most girl’s are attracted to a guy’s status , the way he presents himself , if other’s look up to him a girl will be attracted to that , All in all cheating is a selfish act , the proper thing to do is just end the relationship with your partner if you are that unhappy , most people don’t do that , they weigh their options and think the only way they can get out of a relationship is by having a back up plan and it’s so wrong but most people are selfish and only really care about themselves, it shows their true character of how selfish they really are but most people that cheat won’s admit that they are wrong, they make excuses for their actions. And that’s fine you have an excuse but end the relationship don’t go back to your partner once you realize how wrong it was to have sex with someone else , you already answered your own question that you don’t love and value your partner , My thing is if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner then you have no right being in a relationship with them , let them go and find someone that won’t cheat on them , if you think you truly love them then let them go because you don’t love them the same , if you can’t avoid temptations you are a selfish person , Always remember what you can do behind your partners back is the same thing they can do behind yours , Relationships and love grow off of respect and honesty making each other your number 1 priority and making each other feel wanted , it won’t always be perfect everyone goes through ups and downs but cheating is not the answer , if you feel distant from your partner and miserable you communicate with them first and work it out not jump in the sack with someone else to sort out your problems Not all men and women are whores , The only whore I want is the one that stays under the sheets with me not the ones that run to the streets , Sadly the girls I been with in my life were all selfish whores , why so many men do not want

[Finchie40]

To get married anymore , social media I feel played a big part on destroying relationships, giving people constant options and comparing their lives to others filling heads with useless knowledge , making people feel insecure, just because your partner has trouble with you going out with your friends doesn’t mean they are trying to control you , it means they want to protect you , what most girls don’t realize is men are territorial we protect what is ours we know what other men are thinking ,, and what other men’s intentions are , If you have a man that doesn’t care if you are constantly going out without him he is more than likely up to no good , don’t think for a second that , oh my man trusts me , no it’s your man doesn’t give a shit about you , he is hoping you meet someone else so he can play a victim , I have seen this shit exposed so many times , I am not saying you have to hold your partners hand at every second but you should respect them the way you want to be respected , When boundaries are set in a relationship that goes for the both of you , it’s not control it’s respect for each other , I have slept with married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , when I found out I instantly ended it with them , I felt bad for the husbands and realized how selfish girls are and yes guys can be as well , Why it’s important to value your partner and respect each other , sacrificing at times to let your partner know that you love and value them , if your wants aren’t being met in your relationship then end it with them don’t keep them around until you find someone else

[wittymilf]

It is tricky when you claim ownership over a women and she just doesn’t behave.

[Finchie40]

Well we don’t own her , we prioritize her and protect her , if she chooses to cheat there is nothing we can do about it , we can’t force someone to stay faithful to us but you can make it clear that you won’t tolerate it

[wittymilf]

Yup you can’t force a person to be satisfied with you. 🤷‍♀️ if/when my husband is intrigued by someone else, it’s not about me. He isn’t obligated to love and desire only me… that’s why it’s so special that he does. It wouldn’t be special if I just expected it.

[Finchie40]

That’s hot

[Goth_cat]

What a load of shit.