Rush from girl & parents?

[Anonymous]

Hello people, there is one problem. I don't know if im not serious enough, but i can't decide on a girl I have met. We are together for 3-4 months. She came from other country and we been in hotel for few days. But through stress i couldn't feel anything. Parents and girl are questioning on our status. But i can't tell anything because im too confused. Im 23 and she is 25. What are your thoughts?

[SueShe]

Abort this relation because you are being (mis) used and you don't seem to realize it.

From the replies you gave on other comments, this girl and her parents are pressuring you into something that you are not ready and that is a huge red flag.

The fact that she comes from another country could be part of the problem. You don't tell us where you are from and where the girl is from. I presume that neither of you are from the US or a Western country.

I suspect that the parents are pressuring you to get together with the girl for the sole benefit of the parents or the girl, be it because of a permanent resident permit she may obtain by marrying you or perhaps because of religious issues. There are so many reasons why someone would pressure their daughter to marry a total stranger from a different country.

Keep your fingers off of her because you have no idea in what kind of sink hole you will put yourself otherwise.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes feelings are too new and powerful to understand and you need time to work it out. She might understand if you told her that. Relax, tell everyone to back off, take some time and see what comes to you.

[Avicenna]

Well, where are they from? Are they putting pressure on her.

[Asker]

They are putting pressure on me.

[Avicenna]

What do you want with her? Marriage or just a relationship?

[Asker]

I want more now just relationship, she is really 95% into me and im really grateful about her.

[Guy13]

Do for it. Start a relationship !

[In_Trance]

Walk away