Me and my ex are seeing each other again but?

[Anonymous]

He never tells me he loves me.
He’s the one who left me and treated me badly.
So I’m tryna be in the good books and not cause any disagreements so we can try and be together again when he’s ready.

But sometimes I let it slip that I love him but I say it by accident and then I tell him I’m sorry and I feel like such an embarrassment as he never says it or talks about relationship things with me.

I just want to know how do I change myself to become like him where I don’t feel?

[hahahmm]

It's a myth that saying "i love you" means something. What means something are ACTIONS. That said, if he did something "bad" to you that wasn't justified by how you treated him then this sounds like a bad relationship.

[anonpabo]

you shouldn't change yourself for anyone. at the end of the day this relationship is hurting u more than making u happy

[Asker]

Very true

[hahahmm]

I'd say that depends. If you're not the best person you can be and the other person is trying to get you to be 'better' (not just because they think it's better but it's generally known to be a better way of being) there's nothing wrong with changing for the better. Most people don't actually change IN a relationship tho. They change in between relationships. Which is a problem for people who are constantly in relationships and never have any time to think in between.

[boggboss]

U can't all u can do is pretend