perfect in essence they have flawless reputation, they are good at every possible thing, and others won't believe you if you ever accuse them of doing anything wrong. oh yeah, those people exist. usually, i dislike them. GREATLY. bc they raise general standard of behaviour around. that's in violation of rodrick rules, which is "always do bare minimum" xD. jokes aside, if someone's too good to be true, they probably are. what do you think?
u it is not a red flag on them, but a red flag on yourself...
if you see someone as being PERFECT, then either you already don't know them well enough yet and you're already idealizing them to be perfect...
or you do know them better but you're still trying to fool yourself and idealize that they are perfect...
but are bad approaches just because you idealize things and people instead of seeing them as they truly are
now... if they happen to actually be GREAT people who do check all the "boxes" in your list and they even had more than you asked for so they do "seem" to be "perfect"
yet another red flag you would be holding yourself, because now you're sabotaging your chances if any, with someone that could be great for you, this if you actually have a chance with them... lol
if we don't have a chance with someone this great and we just hate on them... then we're just being salty, lmao
No perfect person exist, but good people exist. I think this is one of those things where you have to use your judgement. Some times we are in denial of some one being good simply be ause we have never come across a person who is of that character. So when we come across them, it is natural to become suspicious. But good people do exist. Just because we haven't met them, doesn't mean they don't exist the world is to vast.
On the flip side, yes, if something is too good to be true, they usually are.
I know I have confused you, but without a scenario, I can't give you an answer with the precision you might like.
No one is perfect. You say they are but that's just not true.
But yeah, some are better, and have a better reputation than others.
I don't think "too good to be true" always applies. I think some people (though not many) are that good.
Very good question. They’re too good to be true. There surely must be something wrong with them… NOT. Nobody’s perfect but if I find this person to be the man of my dreams, then he’s perfect to me.
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Of course I am, darling 😎
There is no such thing as "perfect". However, I get what you mean.
You ever see that Boy Meets World episode where Eric thinks he's ready to date a single mother. Well, he's not because in the end, he winds up yelling at the boy, for going missing and that's not what he should have done and she knew that. But, up until then, she thought he was "too good to be true" or in your words, perfect because he kept saying the right things, was good with her kid, and was attractive to her. Like I said though, it took one mistake for him to get dumped.
It's been my experience that the people you're describing don't exist, but the things you like or envy about someone overwhelm you to the point you don't recognize their faults and shortcomings, sometimes even after knowing them for months.
I was actually your age when I dated a woman who I thought the same way about.
It’s best to take things slowly enough to get a sense of whether someone is genuine and consistent with his reputation. But if you find a man who had a sterling reputation and lives up to it in how he treats you and other people and inspires people around him to better behavior, don’t ruin it by overthinking.
When the time comes you start to think a person is perfect you need to be slapped back to reality! The ONLY perfect human according to the Bible walked on water close to 2,000 years ago. Don't be making life decisions while in that fog, DON"T!
"Rodrick Rules" lol. I've never believed in that. I've always believed in the philosophy of trying to do your very best in everything you do.
If someone is better than me, I don't mind it. Because I don't think it's a bad thing to be challenged to raise your own standards.
(The difference is whether they're judgmental or not.)
I have never seen such a person. Look more closely into them, they are not perfect especially if they do not have the humility to admit their faults.
Or perhaps you see too much of what you would like to be in them so you think they are perfect?
No one is perfect so yes. It most likely means your still just in Limerence for them rather than love.
Lust is about ignoring their flaws to want them.
Love is about accepting their flaws to love them.
nobody is perfect! If anyone think he or she is perfect they need medical help and go to a doctor or mental therapy. You simply can't be perfect in every way
Everybody's perfect if you like them and on first meetings. Over time you'll recognize some flaws. But it does take time and lots of it.
Yes! A thousand times yes, no one is a 100. I learnt that the hard way. Buttttttt its not a red flag, just be careful lol.
Nope. That's my husband, let me tell you that being married to a near perfect man makes life a breeze.
If someone is to good to be true, then that's mostly rigt... he is not perfect and it's not what it seems
No. I just have to take off my admiration glasses and their flaws will surface, after all they are only human.
perfect people don't exist if you're good observer
no but it might mean that she is too good for you.
Nah shoulnt be red flag but be cautious such peeps are cautious about their image.
Once you live with them in the same house the whole "perfect" facade will fall right before your eyes. 😂
I call this Ned Flanders Syndrome. Ned is a pillar of the community but who wants to live with a pillar?
Not really. But I might get insecure about their perfection.
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