My boyfriend doesn’t care if I keep our baby or not?

[Anonymous]

So I’m pregnant and my boyfriend basically told me he doesn’t care whether i keep it or not

[meetkitty123]

Ok and? Woman are always saying our body our choice. What do you want? You aren't a child. You are perfectly capable of making up your mind. Just remember you are now stuck with this man for 18 years plus! Every decision you make from the birth on involving the child down to where you live where the child goes to school what doctors the child has will all have to go through the both of you now. If you want to up and move states... You can't without his consent. As soon as the babe leaves you're body he will have right to half the week with the child. He will have rights to holidays, birthdays fathers day etc. You will have no more or no less rights to child as he does. You have strapped yourself to this man for a lifetime whether he wants to be your life partner or not. You have much to consider. You need to figure out quick how you feel about co parenting...

If he says he doesn't care... Test that theory see how he feels about signing a donors contract meaning he can't be held accountable for the child now will he have any rights to it.

If he rejects that idea then he's bluffing... He does care.

[meetkitty123]

Edit typo
NOR* will he have any rights to it.*

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with that? I’m guessing you want him to be more excited than passive but not everyone is excited for unplanned parenthood. So if you choose to keep the baby then that’s on you but just be mindful of the sort of man you’re bringing a kid into the world with. He may not prefer being that involved..

[Asker]

Not excited but he left the choice in my hands

[Opinion Owner]

So if you kept the baby, parenting is all on you? Would you still stay with him in that case?

[Asker]

Of course not

[Opinion Owner]

You’d be surprised. Well, I’d say do what feels right for you. It’s unfortunate that your boyfriend isn’t on board but that shouldn’t ultimately be the determinant, if overall you want the baby.

[DJB72]

Two questions:

1) How - exactly - did you tell him you were pregnant and ask him if he cared

2) Did you deliberately get pregnant

[OlderAndWiser]

Future Father Of The Year you selected to be the father of your child!

[KrakenAttackin]

@OlderAndWiser. She tried to baby trap Chad Thundercock and this never works.

[Guy13]

You are keeping it, right ⁉️

[leighbee]

I think I have seen this question before. Please stop spamming. Keep it or don't keep it, it is up to you :)

[TroyDT2]

We men have had it blasted into our heads, me since my youth, that it's "Her body, her choice." He is telling you what has been programmed.

[midnightmoon05]

You got your answer. What is your real question?

[User3191989]

Did you guys discuss whether you even wanted to be parents in the first place or not. I mean, was this an accident baby

[KrakenAttackin]

@user3191989. It was an accident for him, not for her.

[es20490446e]

It sounds that neither of you know what the fuck are you doing, sorry! 🙈

[LimitedBenefits101]

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[Anonymous]

Your body, your choice.

[Danny_dan92]

He’s leaving the choice up to you. As he should

[Asker]

he left the choice in my hands for parenthood

[KrakenAttackin]

Why did you decide to get pregnant?

[leighbee]

You don't know the full story

[KrakenAttackin]

@leighbee I know you could have decided to not get pregnant.

[leighbee]

Not necessarily. Her bc could of failed, condoms broke, plan b failed etc.

[KrakenAttackin]

@leighbee Bullshit. In this day in age women choose to get pregnant. Trying to baby trap Chad NEVER works.

[leighbee]

Nope pretty sure when I got pregnant was because I forgot to take my pill. I was at college and working 2 jobs

[midnightmoon05]

@leighbee your busy schedule didn't keep you from having sex.
I am a woman with 2 beautiful children.
I have to seriously think of who I am sleeping with back then. Because at the end I am responsible for my future/kid/family.

[leighbee]

@midnightmoon05 now you're right it didn't. It didn't stop me from getting raped either. I was 19, not where near ready to have a child. I am 23 now and I am still not ready.

[midnightmoon05]

@leighbee There are a lot we don't know that happened to you and I hope you have to love/support/trust from those who are close to you and heal from such truamatic situation.
And wish you a better future.

[leighbee]

Thanks and you too

[KrakenAttackin]

@leighbee BS, you have to miss two weeks or more before the pill is ineffective.

[leighbee]

@KrakenAttackin obviously you know nothing about bc 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@leighbee Wrong, missing a couple of BC pills has minimal risk.

[Anonymous]

OK and? What's the question?

[bubblegunnn]

Keep it

[_Just_A_girl_]

Evil

[leighbee]

Evil?