What is the most common reason you argue with your partner?

[Julie4]

[sage2021]

He is so messy. He has crap EVERYWHERE! While I am sleeping and he stays up all night and when I wake up in the morning Evey room is a mess.

Thus is what kills me. I have trash cans throughout our apartment. I even have one where you put your feet while you're going potty. I'll be darned, the papers, candy wrappers, trash from his bandaids, never make it to the trash can.
Crumbled up paper towels on the floor and not in the trash can right next to where he tossed.

When he's through with a soda, he puts the can in the sink. Not the trash can, the fricken sink - and they get more in the sink as the day goes on.

A total pig! He knows how much this upsets me and does it anyway.

[BlueScorpio]

That's cause he knows you'll put up with it, he basically sees you mommy and maid, who will just pick up after him. You need to nip that crap in the bud and get stern with him about him. Stop cleaning after him and just let it get messy. He'll get sick of it eventually.

[Minxxie]

My ex was like this at the end of the relationship. He has a fundamental lack of disrespect for you and honestly, you should just throw the whole man out. It will only get worse. We did therapy, I tried everything but if he doesn't value you nothing you do will make him value you.

He's just taking up space and standing in the way and the longer he's in your life the longer it will take for your true love to find his way to you.

[Minxxie]

@BlueScorpio I tried that with my ex and he just let me live in his mess. It was horrible.

[BlueScorpio]

@Minxxie wow sorry to hear, sounds like he had some issues perhaps. Do you know what he's like now? Could be hoarding issue.

[Minxxie]

@BlueScorpio He lives in the luxury SUV he financed while I was sick with covid so I doubt he has much stuff now. lmao

His car payments are $800 a month so he can't afford rent.

[BlueScorpio]

@Minxxie well having limited space will make him be a bit more cleaner.

[Minxxie]

@BlueScorpio I hope so! :/

[Ria_300]

Everyone fight for stupid reasons but mine is when we don't understand eachother so well and hurt eachothers feelings this doesn't happen as much anymore but I'm not a native American And my boyfriend is so sometimes when I expressed myself or when it came to me to understand him it got a bit tricky especially bc of the culture differences but we have learned to overcome most of it. It still happens sometimes that's normal but not as much as it used to

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I used to date this girl who would wait until we we were high or drunk to start telling me these detail heavy stories about her family. She would keep switching between her 3 sisters, 2 of which I've never seen in my life and then she would get mad at me for mixing up details from stories or not remembering stuff.

And I'd be like, well, can you tell me about your family when I'm sober? Or at least giving you eye contact?

Anyway, learned my lesson with that chick. She was a bird, a pretty bird, but a crazy bird.

[fbk94]

The reason why I argue in a relationship is usually jealousy.

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[Finchie40]

Lack of intimacy and affection , when they only care about their wants and needs and your feelings don’t matter to them , when they are selfish and only think about themselves, When they act like you should be able to read their mind , when they don’t accept your flaws but expect you to accept theirs , why I am single and don’t tolerate abuse like this that most girls do to their men

[PainusNdeeAnus]

She creates problems and expects me to provide solutions when she doesn’t even give me the authority to prevent those problems from happening

i only appear rich im not im just financially responsible I need to plan don’t be driving for months then tell me your car is making noises and you 800 to 600 dollars to get it looked at

[ArrowheadSW]

There is really only one ex-girlfriend who I argued with all that often. It was her clinginess that really annoyed me and most of the arguments involved the lack of space that she would give me.

[AviatorTom]

Her view is that I never listen to her.
My view is that I listen, but sometimes she says things in a way that she understands but I don't, and when I ask her to clarify, she blows up and says I don't listen to her.

[Bethany22]

Just nod your head and say umhum at the end of her sentences to encourage her to keep talking

[melanieeeB]

I actually nearly never had arguments with past men that I was dating and if, it was a solid reason but we could talk it out normally without throwing fits or something

[DannyUk2017]

None... anymore, broke up 15y ago, and just found out she passed away couple day ago... so..., no more reasons... yayyy

[D_Bone_Steak]

Her excessive spending and my excessive drinking. Unfortunately for her, her spending far exceeds my $8/day habit.

[dustybiker]

We don’t. We share each side and tease each other until coming to a conclusion. Keep it lite. Life is short.

[Anonymous]

Not spending enough time, especially when i don't get attention, love, care and time when im on my period. The long distance relationship is just really tough but the love between us makes it all worth it.

[Phoenix98]

To be completely honest in all the relationships I've ever had I've only had a single argument other then that I've never fought with any of my partners.

[PetiteBabe64]

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[Phoenix98]

@PetiteBabe64 I guess.

[BlueScorpio]

We don't really are argue that much or at all, only had made two major fights.

[LazerBean]

Because he stops me from pinching his absolute juicy baby-cakes of a booty.

[Ria_300]

Yeah that is a big problem I get very offended when my boyfriend doesn't let me pinch his juicy ass

[TacosRAwesome]

Him being too excited about other women. Him not waking up if we have somewhere to go to.

[pizzalovershouse]

I would assume it's not spending enough time together

[Iron_Man]

Everybody argues no big deal. You have to learn to shut it off. No reason to drag it on.

[RyanEC]

I am still a single man so I don’t have that problem.

[Anonymous]

She wants me to do things in bed that I'm not comfortable doing.

[Anonymous]

I want break up after sex...
I bored from you now stop texting n calling me.

[Anonymous]

You tell me first, what's the reason I don't have a partner? So how will I even relate to this?

[sheenagwapa]

jealousy on my part and on his part

[lauraanne02]

He forces me to do things

[Philyouup]

like what?

[Tina19]

His possessive nature

[TroyDT2]

She's wrong lol

[Andres77]

Misunderstandings

[BJP21]

Time appropriation issues.

[dophix]

My was a overthinker.

[Pudsmucker]

To prove I'm right.

[Luopio27]

Their narrow minded view of the world.

[msc545]

Mostly over her driving which worries me.

[Ria_300]

Maybe try getting her driving classes if it worries you so much

[msc545]

I just make it a point to drive when we're both in the car and that way I don't have to worry as much

[BLP11520]

She expects way too much from me...

[20yearsolder]

Money

[Anonymous]

I don’t argue with my partner

[leighbee]

Unhappiness

[08__Andrew__80]

Seeing as you didn't articulate much, please don't take this the wrong way if it does not pertain to you.
In my twenties I had two long term gfs who would never just let me be. I made good money and worked more than anybody but I'm hyper so it was okay but that's Sunday afternoon like the only time I would ever have any time to do anything after going to see her parents and doing this and doing that she would just start throwing things at me grabbing at any star that she could grab to stress me the hell out. Not all women but I've noticed that with a lot of women that if all the little checks on their checklist have not been met yet regardless of the long-term of those goals she's just going to be nitpicking at you and picking on you until her little checklist is completed. The house, car, stuff... all the things the system has told her will make her happy. She doesn't know/yet realize that there's no such thing as happiness... there's happy moments. Satisfaction is what you should aim for and that doesn't come by being selfish, sarcastic or being vain. Comes when you have a genuine concern for others and are proud of the person you are in retrospect. Others can be animals, any deserving entity.
Imagine who you'd want to meet if you needed help or if you dropped a $100 bill on the ground. If you'd hope to meet yourself

[08__Andrew__80]

Sorry... I prematurely hit 'send'. Or I could go on for days about this but never ever rest your happiness on someone else's actions.
I don't know how I know this but it's like people scamming and doing all that sort of thing they are not happy whatsoever because it's like you have this little entity inside of you that dictates if you deserve to feel satisfied or not and you can see so many people who have the means but yet can't find their happiness because that little regulator inside of you a God I don't know your soul I don't think so it's something else it's like it's it's what keeps an eye on you and says oh you've been doing really good I'm going to give you a bunch of energy and an optimistic outlook and even when shit hits the fan because you have a genuine concern for others kind of thing.
Saying all this I'm not saying that's the way you are but I used to get punished basically because the girls I was with lacked insight and never even took the time to ponder what it entails to be satisfied with your life. Be a source of optimism and strength.
When I was like 27 or 28 I made a decision to never say anything sarcastically or even let my mind do that little sarcastic game of pessimism although it does have its place I just cut it completely out of my life and anytime my mind even thought that way I just flicked it out of my thinking and in a very short time maybe I became more naive but I became a better overall force in this world. Good luck.

[Agape93]

Her impulsiveness

[Sixgunsound]

Money

[Anonymous]

Her constant cheating

[Midgetmcwidget]

Wtf, why are you still with her?

[Opinion Owner]

@Midgetmcwidget 5 years deeply in love with her

[Opinion Owner]

@Midgetmcwidget it hurts like hell

[Charlesbrandonf]

Miscommunication

[dreamstar72]

Hearing

[snackthatsmilesback]

Family

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Money

[peedy]

Money

[Anonymous]

She won't do anal 😂