I guess there is no hope that he'll ever come back right?

[Anonymous]

On Sunday, I've made a 2nd deposit on his account for his glasses. I only need to make 3 more deposits and I'll be done with it.

I broke his good, expensive glasses during a bad, stupid argument. He got very disappointed, told me to get help and broke up. As soon as I'm done paying what I owe him, he's going to block me. I guess there is no hope right?

[Danielle93]

You're not getting him back. Let's reverse the roles for a second. I would like to imagine what would happen if a man posted an incomplete version of breaking his girlfriend's glasses. Then on the updates he adds more details and we find out he actually slapped the hell out of his girlfriend, hard enough to make her glasses fall and break.

Would she let him off the hook by just telling him to pay for his glasses and never speak to her again or would he find himself arrested with assault charges, a restraining order and in court for property damage?

[Vesuvius87]

He's definitely not coming back. Can't you blame him? No one likes nor ever deserves to get hit. Once you do that, you've reached the point of no negotiation in the relationship.

[Asker]

I know. I lost him and it's my fault.

[spartan55]

You have the audacity to repost this looking for sympathy? ... unbelievable. Second time posting and you still don't say exactly what happened... just fucking own it already.
Do an update statement of the full details of your argument with your boyfriend. That you slapped/punched him in the face, breaking his glasses. Then get lost.

[Asker]

I guess I kind of figured out where this would go. I would then be reading ''Oh you're lucky I'm not him, I would destroyed you'' bitter posters, making me feel worse than what I'm feeling now.

[Asker]

I'm not lucky. He left me and will block me after I'm done making the final deposit.

[spartan55]

I wouldn't have touched you if it were me. I would have handled just like your boyfriend did. I'm trying to imagine how the sympathy fund raiser would go if the situation were reversed, and the guy decked his girlfriend then posted TWICE looking for sympathy on this forum? How do ya think that would go?
You aren't being forthcoming, and it shows plenty about your character.

[BCA6010]

I wouldn't count on it recovering. The fact he told you to "get help" implies there's been more than just this one action that has irked him over time.

[Asker]

Ok here is the point I didn't add here:
I literally slapped the glasses out of him during the argument (slapped him basically), they fell off and broke. Yes he doesn't me to ever contact him again once I'm done paying for his glasses.

[Daisy_97]

Dear,

those details are not enough! We can give only a general thought that would be wrong for sure!

[Asker]

I slapped him during an argument, his glasses fell and broke. He broke up and I've been depositing money for his glasses. After I make my last deposit he's going to block me and go NC with me for good.

[Daisy_97]

Its sounds like a really toxic behavior! Being a female doesn’t give u the right or excuse!

Anyway, I think that you must make anproper apologies!

It was such a bad fight?

[Asker]

I've apologized countless times but all he wants is his money for his glasses. He doesn't care to listen to any apology. He doesn't want me in his life.

[Daisy_97]

He had enough! What if would been in your place? For sure that all people would been telling you that he must be in jail!

I don’t know how you can fix it! Apologize sincerely! And if you truly love him, and you are repented, just give him some time…
Mybe later on he will give u another chance if you drastically change your behavior

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You need to seriously think this one over after all your paying for his new glasses

[LimitedBenefits101]

So he let a woman hit him? sissy boy right there

[Asker]

I knew I would see a comment like this if I had posted the full detail. I lost him. After the 3rd deposit, he's going to block me. He wants nothing to do with me except his money for his glasses.
I lost a good 2 year-old relationship. I wish I can go back in time and not react like that. I would've still have him. Now I don't.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Sounds like he was your toy boy LOL, such men cannot be trusted

[AsaKyo]

Yikes.. lmao

[Asker]

Not funny. I lost him and it's my fault. I wish I could go back in time and fix things.

[In_Trance]

right

[Asker]

I'm sad at this moment. I lost a great person.

[In_Trance]

I wouldn't make any more payments but you do you