a month ago my life took a turn I never expected
after being with my boyfriend for 3 years being what I thought was a happy relationship he asked for a brake because he wasn’t sure what he wanted anymore and he needed to work himself out he’s going through a rough time family member died, father issues and gambling etc that he’s struggling to deal with right now. He also was afraid of this brake cause he was scared I’d leave him and never come back. Being respectful of his decision I moved back to my mums after a week I got the idea he was seeing one of his mates girl friend. Who I never really liked being around cause she kept pushing her friendship on him. So I went over there and asked him he finally admitted they had been flirting a little. I asked him if He wipes her then I can give her as much space as he needs but he didn’t want to do that cause of the “principal” He did want to try and fix our relationship but couldn’t let go of her. I kept pushing for a couple weeks asking how he could do this to me etc and now he’s completely broken up with me. Me asking him to please block me because I can’t help myself to harass him with questions but he refuses to block me but then he won’t even reply. I don’t want to do my life without him and to know he cares for her hurts so much I can’t explain.
how come he doesn’t have to experience the loss I am? If he’s talking to her can she really make him completely forget about me and not care? What happened to the guy that loved me.. ( a few months ago he bought me a promise ring ) how can I move on when it hurts so much to think of them together. Why is this so easy for him. He says he still has hope for us in the future.. it’s like he wanted to keep me on the sideline while he messed around with this girl.
I know I deserve better deep down but I still want him, I love him and he went from doing everything to make me happy to hurting me within the same month. I did do a lot for him too. How can he not even miss me?
after being with my boyfriend for 3 years being what I thought was a happy relationship he asked for a brake because he wasn’t sure what he wanted anymore and he needed to work himself out he’s going through a rough time family member died, father issues and gambling etc that he’s struggling to deal with right now. He also was afraid of this brake cause he was scared I’d leave him and never come back. Being respectful of his decision I moved back to my mums after a week I got the idea he was seeing one of his mates girl friend. Who I never really liked being around cause she kept pushing her friendship on him. So I went over there and asked him he finally admitted they had been flirting a little. I asked him if He wipes her then I can give her as much space as he needs but he didn’t want to do that cause of the “principal” He did want to try and fix our relationship but couldn’t let go of her. I kept pushing for a couple weeks asking how he could do this to me etc and now he’s completely broken up with me. Me asking him to please block me because I can’t help myself to harass him with questions but he refuses to block me but then he won’t even reply. I don’t want to do my life without him and to know he cares for her hurts so much I can’t explain.
how come he doesn’t have to experience the loss I am? If he’s talking to her can she really make him completely forget about me and not care? What happened to the guy that loved me.. ( a few months ago he bought me a promise ring ) how can I move on when it hurts so much to think of them together. Why is this so easy for him. He says he still has hope for us in the future.. it’s like he wanted to keep me on the sideline while he messed around with this girl.
I know I deserve better deep down but I still want him, I love him and he went from doing everything to make me happy to hurting me within the same month. I did do a lot for him too. How can he not even miss me?
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