He revealed his feelings, then pulled away - will he ever come back?

Anonymous
I have been dating his divorced 45-year old for 3 months now. About 2 weeks ago we had the talk and I told him I wanted a relationship. Two days later he takes me out and tells me what I mean to him - that he has never been this close to anybody since the divorce, that nobody knows him better and that, in a way, he is scared. The night ended greatly and we even made plans for the weekend, however as his friend's couldn't attend our party, we cancelled it. Promised we would see each other in the weekend but he wasn't feeling well. Next Tuesday, we meet again. I went to his place. We had sex and the two times that we had a great moment of connection, he interrupted it. On the second time, our eyes locked and he just looked at me and said " you know" and we started a game of "I know what?". He drove me home and in the car I asked when he would sleep over, spend the night and he said "I am single", in a flirty and provocative way. Yet, truthful. He dropped me of and next day I messaged him "Spend the night" with a kiss emoji. He responded with a hug emoji. Since then I have been trying to talk to him. On Thursday I asked him if we could videocall cause I wanted to talk to him. He was going to a housewarming party and I told him I was happy he was going out and told him to enjoy. I didn't message him on Friday and on Saturday when I did, he said he was working as he had a deadline at 12PM. I said I would message him later and he mentioned going to a birthday party. On Sunday, I messaged him at 2PM and he said all the things he had done in the morning and that was just 'relaxing now' and was going to start working soon. I asked if we could meet and he said that he was too busy. I asked for a video call and he said that it would take a lof of time and he had a lot of work to do. He asked me to message him and when I did, he said he was busy and never answer. I asked him what was going on as I felt being played. Will he ever come back?
He revealed his feelings, then pulled away - will he ever come back?
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