What do you envy most about the opposite gender?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Men can hangout in most places with their shirt off and no one bats an eye. I wish I could take me shirt off on those really hot days and just hangout without someone making a big deal out of it.

Men aren't targeted as often as women for rape or other kinds of harm. Especially like kidnappings, sex trafficking, prostitution. I mean there are definitely cases for men but not as high as women.

I know that a lot of men don't report it because they won't be taken seriously but I just mean that women are sexually assaulted/harassed more.

No one cares for a males nudes as much as they do for females. Let's say a girl gave nudes to a boyfriend and then they broke up. He could post that online and it would be more damaging to her than if she posted his nudes online. Like no one really cares about a guy's nudes as much as female nudes.

For straight men (I don't know how it is for men in the gay community) they aren't treated like sex objects. For women it's like you are treated like this delicate thing that's unintelligent but the woman's only worth is food making and sex/giving birth. Women aren't taken as seriously as a man is.

It's insulting because it's like I want to be more than that. For a man, people look at him to offer more and to make something of himself. I wish I had that. People are like, you can be a house wife you don't need to do anything. Well how about I don't want to be a house wife? Now I'm suddenly a bitch because I don't want to do something I'm forced to do?

A man's strength. You can defend yourself in most situations or at least be able to fight for your life. It's not like that for women and we have to go super out of our way to not put ourselves in harm's way. We have to overanalyze everything.

Like say a girl meets a new guy and he invites her over his place. He's thinking about a good time. The woman is thinking about how she doesn't know him well enough to go over his place. He could be a murderer/rapist and she needs to make sure he's a nice guy first by taking things slow, getting to know him better and make sure he's not crazy which takes time.

The guy probably never even thought about that. He never thought that's something women fear because he doesn't live in that world of being weak where most men can basically end your life if you don't have a gun on you.

If a guy has sex he's amazing, if a girl has sex just once she's a huge whore not worth marriage. Especially slut shaming... how can a guy complain about how women can have all the sex they want but once they do every guy will make her feel like a huge slut. It's not really a benefit when you think about it.

Boys will be boys. Basically excuses all kinds of behavior. I wish that existed for girls but it doesn't.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You guys get more respect as you get older. No one is calling you worthless or used up or a bunch of other crass things when you're no longer 20 years old.

You guys can be bald and it’ll be normal or even look better. If we lose our hair, everyone looks at it differently. Our “value” decreases.

You guys can have sex with hundreds of women and you’ll get praise. If women have a body count over 1, were whores.

Dad bods get appreciation, women who actually have had babies get told their bodies are ugly, mostly by their own partner.

You guys can wear hoodies and jeans well into adulthood but if a grown woman does it, we look like hobos.

You guys have yoire whole lives to find the right person and start a family. Women only have about until their mid 30s for healthy pregnancies. But even so, men wint want a woman in her 30s. He’ll choose the younger one over the 30 yr old.

So just basically, everything that makes a man unlikeable can be helped. But everything that makes women unlikeable to society is something we have no control over. Oh women dont like you cuz you're poor, you have until you die to earn more money and have your dream life/family at 60. Women dont get that luxury. A woman with money does nothing for men. It may even turn him off.

But its also like if women complain about being with awful men, men say they should have chose better….. WE FONT HAVE TIME! We have way more pressure as women to find someone quick. But then if we say we’re waiting for the rigjt person, men make funnof us and say we need to settle down now before no one wants us at 30🙄 I don't see why can't be attracted to us at 30. Sounds like a you problem.

Men either dont care or are unaware of how hard it is to be a woman asides from the obvious r*pe and sexual ass*ult we have to try to dodge. And those are only good until, one again, were older. Men are valued for their success, assets and women for their youth, which is very short lived. And beauty is valued too for women but you could be the most beautiful woman in the world but if you're 34, no one will care. An average 20 yr old girl will be picked over the gorgeous 34 yr old.

Rosexøxø · Answer

I used to envy the male strength and ability to eat food and not gain weight.

I’m just not envious anymore 😂. Don’t envy women, men, or gays

What’s the point? Lmao

I live my best life with my muffin top and my muffins 🧁, and I like knowing there are strong men out and about.💪 Makes me smoyle 😊😂

And the pretty sisters of mine look so adorable in their fits from I don't know where these days:

vans and American eagle lol

Why envy people? Be your own person.. seriously. 💁‍♀️💆‍♀️

BlueScorpio · Answer

I like how strong men can be, because of muscle mass and testosterone they can really do some damage when threatened. It would be pretty cool to have the same level of strength when needed, say to protect myself or get good paying jobs that require a ton strength. I also like their bravery and boldness, my husband grandfather and few his uncles went off to war. One his uncles stepped in his brothers place cause he didn't want his brother to go through war again. One his uncles gained a purple heart for sacrificing his life to save others. I know a lot men during that time didn't have much of choice to fight, but many of them did and fought to the best of their abilities. Even my brother went into the army.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think guys are lucky they can have kids without getting pregnant or giving birth. My fear of birth was so strong it kept me single all through my younger years, even when I had amazing guys chasing me.

Summeroflove · Answer

The grass is always greener on the other side. Also stop posting such retarded photos. There is male and female and on rare occasions a intersex

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm envious that women get to play with your boobs and enjoy it. We guys have nipples that are totally useless, no feeling.

Bethany22 · Answer

Guys get jobs more easily

Anonymous · Answer

y'all don't get periods and don't have to worry about someone saying something inappropriate about what u wear, having to constant look over ur shoulder at night or worry about going home when it's late and I don't have a car and some psycho comes and kidnaps u and kills u. And the fact that it cerebral ability doesn't get second guessed, and when u have kids that it life isn't deemed as completely over. The fear of doing something alone cause it could be dangerous example travelling. And the fact that when u get divorced most of the blame goes to the female and she should of just put up with it he would change eventually. Yh sure women have privileges too like lying ur on period to get out of something, flirting ur way out of a sticky situation if the guy isn't gay but the whole dictating of society. about what u should be and shouldn't be , what ur limitations are since women aren't mentally strong enough we just got a more open emotional side and we don't give a shit, u guys should try that sometimes. Also that the country that I'm originally from freaks put when statistic shows girls are doing better in skl that guys but when it's the other way around it's a happy occasion. That they didn't wanna re-elect the female prime minister because she had no kids and she wasn't even near the age of retirement but no kids she wouldn't be able to relate to the others. Lose lose if u got kids or choose ur career but guys it's completely different. And the whole choose to be parents thing that's y y'all shouldn't make abortions legal and if the girl chooses to keep it the least u could do is help her it is half of u too and paying child support is more like paying a bill than actually paying though both are equal life risking for the girl , my situation for example if I happen to get pregnant at a not so good time and I get an abortion that is it , I can't have any more kids it's hard enough for me to have kids as is and if the guy chooses to help great and if not so be it. But u do realize u get criticized either way the man who didn't want to support the kid vets called heartless and mean and it's his responsibility and the women who abort the kid if anyone finds out about it get called heartless, a monster and selfish. And don't say at least she gets no kid, abortions are traumatic in themselves and depressing the whole it's just a lump of cells doesn't comfort for much. Yh it sucks to be forced to pay for a lid u didn't plan for I get that 100%. This whole feed just turned into an argument about aborting and right to not wanna be parents.

Anonymous · Answer

The women-are-wonderful effect. Women get treated sooooooo much better by society than men do.

The fact that women get to choose whether they become parents but men don't.

All the social support and sympathy women get that men don't.

The fact that women get to show their emotions without being shamed for it.

The fact that women have so many options to a successful life while men essentially only have one, which is to have a successful career and earn a good income.

All the special gender-based scholarships and government grants that are available only to female simply because they have a vagina.

Women are significantly less likely to be victims of violence.

A woman can be freely “manly” but a man cannot be freely a “girly”.

The public school system is set up for the success of girls but not boys.

A woman can cry at a drop of a hat and people do not even blink. Not so for men.

Women aren’t expected to propose, ask people out or be romantic at all.

I could go on and on but GAG apparently won't let me

ShellyB · Answer

There are so many situations where I would be afraid to do something or at least be afraid to do it alone, where if I were a guy I would not feel that way (at least not as much I know guys can also get scared), I am really used to it at this point and don't even think about it until I step back and ponder questions like this. For example I will not drive my car more than 30 minutes alone unless it is an emergency, I try not to drive after dark, I don't take walks alone after dark even in safe areas, I don't go in sketchy areas alone ever if I can avoid it even in daylight, a lot of stuff like that which I am pretty much blind to now that is just how I live, but it would be a very different life if I didn't worry about that or at least worried a lot less.

But I'm glad I am a woman anyway I think both have big advantages and disadvantages really.

William7489 · Answer

My god that’s easy, I would like to know what it feels like to never have to worry about being shot down, embarrassed and rejected by the opposite sex. I would love to know what it feels like to be pursued, to have people take me on dates, buy me drinks, get me presents, and put me on a pedestal. I understand there’s a flipside to that and it’s not that easy. But honestly, ladies, take it from me, you’d hate the burden of having to be the guy or person who always has to make the first move and take that chance.

OpenClose · Answer

Hmm.

Probably the fact that people are more eager to talk to, compliment, and empathize with women. Like, you can play a totally passive role and friends and romantic partners still find their way in

Guys it's like, if you don't actively announce yourself everywhere you go, you don't exist and will die alone and forgotten.

Another is having style options and having you appearance count for something. Guys can't really look much different from each other or express themselves visually. So we have no "passive flirtation" options.

MCheetah · Answer

Life on Easy Mode, being able to have their choice of whatever partner they want, and being able to succeed purely on looks, sex appeal, or marrying a rich guy. Unless you live in a third-world country, there is literally nothing easier in life than isn't being a young, attractive white woman... MAYBE being born to billionaire parents, but even then, I'd argue a guy born to them has it "equal" to any modern attractive young female nowadays. Hence, OnlyFans and Simp Culture. Being a modern First World woman is like playing a game with Cheats.

So just about everything that isn't a period, can be envied about women. I'd still rather be a guy, though.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean men talk about how women are treated nicely I’m not sure what they’re talking about what I’m mostly used to is men wanting to fuck me basically… I basically don’t get anything from men I’m not on OF and beyond the occasional help which is really nice (I also help by the way) I don’t see how it’s so much easier to live in this world as a woman… we have to be independent too if I want nice things for myself, buying myself a flat etc I can't really expect a man to do that for me so we’re in the same boat really…

Anonymous · Answer

It's so much easier to date as a woman. Literally no effort other than to dress up (which men are expected to as well). Men have to work their ass off to date. Expecting to initiate conversations, planning the date, make sure she is entertained, paying for the datesflirting, making the first physical move, asking for a second date and facing rejection.. Modern women in general are so much more entitled these days. They expect men to do all these things while being a career woman yet still having old fashioned mindset of guys pay for everything and taking the lead, but they don't offer anything in return and can be boring to talk to. Not all women by any means. I think technology has ruined things.. Made people more self entitled and bored easily.

NathanDavis · Answer

usually... they can sit and fit way easier and more comfortably inside most cars, planes and most place where one would... lol

me, not so much... with my size, and weight (and I'm not even that tall really) sometimes have to make sure it would be fine to just sit down, lol

Anonymous · Answer

Most women seem to have made an ass of themselves honestly I’m ashamed of the people who are my own gender and that’s sad. But I’m not saying there aren’t any women out there that aren’t stupid or mean. I’m sure there are a few that are nice and smart, like me. I could see why though men talk down on women but I could also see why us women talk down on men. Most people I’ve met who were the most awful/mean were men In the flesh. So I can’t really answer this question. What, I’m just being honest here I know this is what every single one of you is really thinking, just too afraid to say.

Pegases · Answer

Nothing. We live in interesting times where modern feminist women love to hate and bash men, and unfortunately it's taken its toll on younger men. But the beauty of aging as a man is that our value increases with age. So if you're reading this as a man, stay strong, and build your empire. Everything you desire in life starts there. Tough times build strong men, and I'm rooting for you.

A_Bell · Answer

Height acceptance. I am almost 6 feet tall and finding shoes that fit, sleaves long enough, one piece suits with long enough torsos or pants that fit at all are a challenge.

Also, I am athletic and used to be small breasted before giving birth, so I was always afraid people thought I might be a dude until they heard my voice.

Wolfynight · Answer

guys have it easy cause they can f*ck whoever they like and not get called hoes, but if a girl breaks up with someone and dates two days later. she a hoe? guys are congratulated for banging ans many girls as they can and have no morals, i don't envy, its just double standard

musicbrain5 · Answer

I like how guys are saying “free stuff” or “free drinks”, lol. I don’t remember the last time I got something for free just because I’m a woman. 😂

I’m envious that guys don’t have to deal with periods! 😊

EmmaMary · Answer

The only time I ever remotely envy you guys is when I'm having to queue up for the ladies restroom.

HorggleThorp · Answer

Physical strength, intelligence and bravery. Not that women can’t be these things, but we surely got the short end of the stick in life. Half the population is disabled compared to the other half.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd rather be a guy for a bunch of reasons but sometimes it's annoying how much easier things are for women then men.

If they play their cards right, a woman can fairly easily get whatever they want. You could make tens of thousands of dollars a month selling your own clothes, you don't have to be as good at your job to get promoted, finding a loyal, good man is much easier than the other way around.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

She can wear lipstick, I shouldn’t. She can have long hair, many ridicule my hippy hair. She can wear skirts, some assume skirts, like kilt/izar/lungi, are for women. It’s rare for her to grow moustache and beard, and many say I look old with mine. They call me misogynistic for being male.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

How easy they have it

A woman’s life is as hard as she chooses to make it

my grandmother is 96 years old wealthy and has never worked a day in here life this woman has a 4th grade education she married a blue collar man had 14 children and is currently living high on the hog

I don’t know what sleep is! I wish I could just find a man who will take care of me and our children

Lliam · Answer

Their pluck and courage in a world full of men who are bigger and stronger. Their perceptiveness. The fact that they can have mind blowing and multiple orgasms.

annabananna · Answer

They can have a baby without dealing with being pregnant. I hated being pregnant and had complications that out my life at risk. It was still worth it but man it would be nice if it was easier.

Msputiton · Answer

Nothing.  I appreciate them, but envy nothing

RandomGuy1032 · Answer

They get to pick their friends. men have to actively try to have friends.

Women get free food.

They get told theyre beautiful all the time by everyone.

In other words they get all their needs met.

Men get NONE of their needs met by anyone but themselves. Hence why a real man will never truly respect a bitch.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Men can walk around at night without being attacked (usually), they usually don’t have to worry about having their drinks spiked at clubs and bars, and they don’t have to experience periods or ovarian problems such as PCOS or endometriosis.

Ukrainianbuddafly · Answer

That in a relationship they just have to breathe and if their girlfriend gets out of line they have a handy f boy book that gives them all the best responses such as "you are insecure" or "just leave then." It'd be nice for women to have that luxury.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Not envy but more like appreciate:  1. Size  2. Build  3. Strength  4. Inherent Courage

JustiReno · Answer

Absolutely nothing, I’m so glad I was born male. Testosterone is like having a molly factory in your balls

But, what I admire about women is their beauty, every animal alive knows a woman is more graceful than a man

Anonymous · Answer

To be perfectly honest--nothing. For a second I though maybe the slightly higher life expectancy, but I don't think I really want to be around for an inordinately long amount of time anyway, so I honestly can't think of anything. I have no desire to give birth or anything, so I'm pretty good where I am.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Women are allowed to be weak, and don’t get grief for it. Women can get out of trouble just being pretty. Women can go their entire life without making a move on the opposite sex, and no one will think something is wrong with them. Generally speaking, women get more support with their difficulties than men do.

Bellona · Answer

Men can get a woman pregnant and not face any consequences; women have to deal with the pain of an unwanted baby without financial help for an abortion or bringing up of the child.

indie-indignation · Answer

Women have to put up with biological males competing in their sports posing as women. Men are luckier in that regard.

Even if you castrate the guy, there’s still a man’s body, just castrated. There’s still muscle mass, there’s still big bones, and there’s still a tall frame.

BTW… ever wonder why there are so few biological women posing as men that are competing in mens’ sports?

Adam1978 · Answer

They have an easy path in life, aslong as they aren't toxic men will simply just prepare their way. A guys lazy path means living in their parents basement, far from similar outcome.

MementoMori_ · Answer

Opposite gender? I thought the Democrats said there is no "opposite" gender. You are one of 126 different genders according to them. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

boggboss · Answer

When going to a club and seeing its ladies night so u get in for free where I'm having to pay

tfan1 · Answer

I envy most about girls is that you have the power of multitasking and remembering things easily. Also that you have the capability or power yo have almost unlimited amount of orgasms one right after the other.

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

They don't worry about being followed or attacks walking home, can't get knocked up and dropped, can someone their last name, marry, make an honest women instead of be a ho3maker, have great strength, no period.

Cedman · Answer

Women's ability to remember so much about everyone. My grandma could tell you who was married, who wasn't, what people ate last night and things people did over 10 years ago in such detail. As a dude I barely know other guys last names.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t envy them, I love who I am. Yes society does seem to treat women better in most cases when it comes to serious issues. Men are just supposed to suck it up. But no matter I love being a man.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It must be so nice to be as nagging, unpleasant, and generally demanding as possible of the people in your life and  NEVER  have anyone call you out on it.

ManOnFire · Answer

They get bigger shoe sections in stores. They can wear colorful clothes but when I do it people think it's funny.

HighValue · Answer

That they are not often falsely accused of stuff that can ruin their employment without any evidence.

Anonymous · Answer

larger paycheck, can pee anywhere, doesn't need to wear shirts or a bra, can cum, no need to put on makeup in the morning... and many many other reasons

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

The free ride until the sexual interest goes down. Age haters age!

PetiteBabe64 · Answer

I envy men’s ability To be an idiot and then Be so good at Not caring. Me I care a lot

xJeremyx · Answer

We all have our own unique challenges. Being human is hard. Its like comparing apples with oranges.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I envy that a woman's vagina can turn into a vacuum and suck a man inside. Almost like Event Horizon. Or an octopus squatting on your brain.

JPresidente · Answer

Every once in a while I'm curious what it would like to have boobs but other than that, I'm good.

Andres77 · Answer

That they can come 50 times in a day with proper attention! im stuck at once a day or every other day.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

They almost never have to worry about being seen as creepy.

fonduegirl · Answer

How their sexual needs are normalised and mine aren't.

flashrex · Answer

I’m jealous of women’s ability to make men desperate enough to pay for sex.

AsaKyo · Answer

That they have dicks they can swing around like a water hose and I don't lmao

NerdDG · Answer

I’m envy of their emotions. I can’t cry over cyberpunk edgerunner, Lord of the rings and everything. I’m emotionless robot

dolemite89 · Answer

that u get to be the ones in control of sex and can get laid by merely existing 😂 men resent women in general for the hoops you put us through to get sex.

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