What's something you envy about the opposite gender?

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thegirlwonder · Accepted Answer

Honestly, life in general seems easier for men. I know they struggle in some ways as well, of course. I love being a woman and I'm a total "woman's woman," but if I were choosing my own sex/gender before being born... uff. I don't know that I would choose to be a woman. I love being a woman! But if I had the choice before being born and saw how society treats women vs. men, I'd probably choose being a man.

Our sexist society favors them. Men are more respected by default than women and our society for most of modern history has been controlled by men. So women are still in process of chipping away at xyz things for more respect, more opportunities, more ability to just exist. Women are mostly just valued in relationships for their looks, youth, beauty, domestic skills.

Men have illogical fantasies of being superior in logical reasoning and society supports this stupidity. People believe and trust men more than they do women.

Men still dominate many leadership positions and they are taken more seriously when it comes to leadership. Not even just at work, but many/most societies have traditions of men leading the home as well. Women are expected to be followers, to be meek, to not have opinions or not express them as strongly, and to follow/obey husbands. Don't be smarter than the guy - young girls often play dumb for a reason.

A lot of people make a ton of excuses for what men do, even their parents. Our society likes to blame women for a lot of what men do, opposed to holding young boys and men accountable. Women are blamed more for the assault, abuse, neglect in relationships, etc. that they receive. I wouldn't want to be that type of man, though.

Women are expected to take care of most child rearing responsibilities, even if they work full time.

Women have to learn to orgasm a lot of times. For men, it's easier. No (sometimes horribly painful and messy) periods, having children doesn't involve risking your life after hours of agonizing pain if you're a man, etc. Women have more shame attached to sex, because of double standards and slut shaming in society. Men who play the field are applauded or at best given the "boys will be boys" pass.

iCuddleU · Accepted Answer

The fact they can piss standing up with no issues.

moviedude714 · Accepted Answer

That women can access sex a lot more easily than the average man can, even though many women would prefer a relationship, don't get me wrong I'm sure women do and want sex but they would rather have it while in a relationship, I agree with them as well and I'm on women's side in regards to that but tons of guys in the world would actually love to have a relationship, they actually want a girlfriend but they actually struggle to get one.

Yeah you don't hear of women actually being upset or admitting to struggling to get into a relationship as much as you hear of men do it seems.

But yeah a lot of men envy or resent women because they're not expected to be the confident assertive ones if you get what I'm saying, the burden of leadership falls on the guy's shoulders

Bluemax · Accepted Answer

Multiple orgasms. Longer lifespans.

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm very jealous that men get to eat more calories than women do. Obviously I could eat that much too but I'd get super fat

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

Things I envy about women:

Built in floatation devices.

Don't get an erection when horny.

Can have more than one orgasm in a single turn.

Can get away with wearing men clothing.

Look sexy whole sweating balls in a dance club.

Can bleed for 7 days and not die.

No matter what age they are, they can have sleep overs with a group of friends.

Bring life into this world.

Have sex with another woman and it is sexy to both men and women.

The ability to withhold sex to break a man's will.

Low risk of going bald.

Kissing any boo boo and making it feel better.

Ability to sing and dance while baking an apple pie.

Hide stuff in their bras.

Can drive while putting on makeup, talking on the cell phone, eating, smoking, breast feeding the baby and flipping someone the bird.

flowersintokyo · Answer

All these guys are saying they envy girls for the things their own gender gives them, makes possible for them, like- easy sex, money for nudes. Perhaps they envy woman for having a way easier time controlling their sexual urges, for being wired to want to wait until sex comes to them, for not being so visual in attraction and sexuality that a piece of fabric makes us orgasm... Man they all just word it like they blame us for what they do for us smh! this should be based on our biology!

I envy men for growing so tall

littlebitmoody · Answer

Physical strength. I grew up in a traditional environment and my family insist my brother accompanies me when i go out. Men are supposed to pretect women and i always scoffed cuz he's younger than me and i remember when i used to beat him in fights. But we haven't fought in a while and recently i realised why. He's so fucking strong. He doesn't evem train he games all day how tf- I'd love to be that strong and know i can protect myself and people i love too.

britishbby · Answer

The dressing options and sexualism, god id love to flash my cock a littleeee or cum on cam and earn even a 100 a day for it lol i also envy the game that woman have... Like what's that ur horny... Go ask a man for a shag oh sorry what 90% of men said yes and u can do as u please and get free drinks... God id love to be a woman so many things that are just better i could go for hours and i get its not all sexual and perfect and u get periods and shit but like fuck do girls have a better life than lads when it comes to sex night life and life in general, u might not be able to get a construction job as easy but its not a good job anyway and if u fail go find a sugar daddy or a horny fuck to pay u 200 a day for a foot pic... And yes ooo u shouldn't have to show ur body to make a living... Bitch please if i make 200 off a foot pic idgafffff

Lionman95 · Answer

I envy girls for their variety of clothing. I sometimes which there were more styles of clothing I could have.
I also envy girls for the ability to do something else than what they think about.
But there are many things that I wouldn´t want to have.

DrHonesty · Answer

The insane amount of ways a girl can make money from easy things like selling used panties/socks, posting on onlyfans, dancing on tiktok, teasing on Instagram, rubbing your pussy on chaturbate, it's literally endless, highly profitable, easy and don't even need to leave your house. And women complain about inequality. How many guys do you know making $200k/year showing their dick online and selling their work socks

Account · Answer

1. That they can walk freely at night.

Can't say the same about women.
Also no living in a bad area has nothing to do with it since I have never been harassed or catcalled or followed by a woman even in bad areas. Ever.
I have to constantly look who is behind me. Not fun.

2. Lack of periods.

A_Bell · Answer

There hasn't been a draft for a slaughterfest, I mean war, in a while, so I am sure most of the female responses are about how much of a victim we are.

What I envy about men is that most don't go around acting like every bad decision they make is someone else's fault. They are mostly accountable for their actions. They don't cry to get out of the reprecussions of any cruel things they do. Well except Betas.

XimenaV · Answer

the ability to safely walk alone at night. I do anyway because I carry knives and I've found that if you act like you belong people will leave you alone but it would still be nice to not have to worry

Silas_153 · Answer

* They live longer, on average.
* They can act like children if they want to, and society won't condemn them for this.
* Shorter and more lenient prison terms.
* They will never be accused of sexual harassment in the workplace.
* For the amount of work they do, they earn a lot more than men.
* They have all of the rights men have, but none of the responsibilities.

GingerGuy · Answer

- How "easily" they can make money, and sometimes a lot of it  - All the things women can get away with just because they are a woman. Things that guys can never get away with.

Still-alive · Answer

you women can get sex anytime you want pretty much. and usually you have your pick of guys to choose from.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Getting approached, although there are some guy that take it too far and act like dickheads about it, it just depends on the individual.

hearvoices · Answer

Their almost supernatural ability to find things. I could tear the house apart, cursing and swearing in a desperate frenzy looking for keys or something and not find a thing. A woman could walk in, sniff around for 10 seconds and go " Oh look, there it is!" It drives me nuts. I'm in awe of how fast women can find stuff.

TheorionMage · Answer

Being BORN into a potential lifelong legacy to negotiate most ANY life's role a female might desire. Males are relegated to societally-defined roles of 'Aggressor', Courtier or shy & timid or 'Nerdy'.

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

Female privilege, most definitely.
The societal expectation she should only be concerned with meeting her needs/making her self feel good and fulfilled, with no responsibility to general seriousness, wider problem solving, needing to be objective.
Girls can afford to claim all is subjective - which essentially means 'all I am interested in is how I feel'. You simply cannot do that as a guy and not be seen as a deficient man.

Leavesbound · Answer

Their bodies are the font of all human creation. They are less prone to going bald.

beebella · Answer

That they are bigger and stronger than I will ever be.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nothing, honestly. I guess multiple orgasms would be nice, but you'd have to find someone who knows how to give you multiple orgasms.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

1 Not bleeding for days on end, coupled with cramps & period poops. 2 Not having boobs 3 Not having to take forever to get ready (hair, makeup, 5 outfits, jewelry, shoes, purse)

ohshee · Answer

Nothing really there's no reason to even do that but if I was going to pretend there was something my eyes are very deep deep green wish my eyes would kind of look like that sometime like yours

rievious · Answer

Getting someone to come up to me and be interested in me without actually knowing anything about me but listens bc I'm pretty... would be nice for the opposite sex to walk up to me and just be interested in me for once.

oldawg · Answer

A girl can get laid when ever she wants any place and anywhere and with anyone she chooses a lot easier and more than a guy

JustMeh1234 · Answer

They are so genuine and its easier to understand them. They are happier. And they dont get offended easily.

blank_expression · Answer

I really tried on this one but truly, envy is not in my dna. If anything, I feel more pity for most than I reflect or project on here.

dray995 · Answer

That they’re the opposite sex. Their bodies are a mystery to me and quite alluring. I wish I could switch places with an attractive single woman for at least a day to know what it feels like to be a woman.

Gosceewual · Answer

they have higher confidence, less chance of rejection, easy sex, get paid for nudes and stuff... people dont disrespect them for no reason, people respect them and nice to them more, people are friendly to girls

shouldnobetter · Answer

The feeling in your Vagina when a guy shoots burst after burst of Hot Cum; and possibly when you might feel the exact moment (if you do) of fertilization. Have you ever felt that exact moment, when you feel the pregnancy actually begins?

Floppy2112 · Answer

I don't envy wanting to have sex with guys. If I were a woman, I would definitely be a lesbian.

SaoirseS · Answer

Height (I'm under 5' tall), and upper body strength when I need to lift something heavy.

Furuok · Answer

The intelligence the collection of bathroom accessories the wanted tolerances to be observed and taken serious. The feeling of a best friend to explore different cultures. She can learn to drive my John Deere.

Дерйа · Answer

They can go for a walk at night, any time, without getting harassed

Splatzonelover1 · Answer

I am only like boys clothes and I wear short from teen age boys size 16 since the girls clothes only go up to size 14 . they always had pocket in boys short and. they have better mature colour.

pink_and_inlove · Answer

That they don’t have to shave anything and they don’t have to feel all gross for that

rounddablock · Answer

When all else is equal they have it much easier in the dating scene.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Thier ability too appreciate male attributes from a female perspective.

Nazgol · Answer

I guess that they can have unlimited sex/hook ups but a girl would be judged if she did the same. Also their freedom in choices like fashion and many other daily life things. And of course getting paid more for the same /wage inequality

BCRanger10 · Answer

I don't envy a thing. I  love  being a man.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Pretty much everything! I can teach you how to pee standing up! Emma Peel should've taught you that girls can go anywhere they want!

Chill_Meta · Answer

The amount of passes women get in life and opportunities afforded to them freely that they usually take for granted and don't utilize wisely.

Toast792 · Answer

I have always wanted a flat chest and a beard, lol. But also no period.

DaveToo · Answer

Girls have a pussy. The single most heavenly part of the human body.

loveslongnails · Answer

That you can have multiple orgasms, for what seems like an endless amount of time, consecutively !!

kinkyguy45 · Answer

They are not so driven by sex, and they have much more comfortable looking crotches. But I’m glad I can stand to pee and have huge muscles! And I’m glad I don’t have boobs to throw my balance off

dolemite89 · Answer

girls get the ultimate decision if they want to have a kid or not, men have no final say even if we don’t the kid, uve never heard a guy say to a woman that he’s having this baby against her will 🤣

Slim57 · Answer

Getting attention for just being a woman, always have help offered, people listen to your side of the story more often than a mans, and lets not forget you can do anything on video sexual or not and make unreasobale amounts of money

AkshiJanjua · Answer

If they are good looking life generally gets easier for them

grega239 · Answer

Make a living by posting bikini pics on onlyfans... id like to be payed just for existing too

PeterCharie1991 · Answer

That you can wear much nicer clothes in hot weather as all we guys can wear is tshirts vests or go topless but not guys do i dont

collie22 · Answer

they pee standing up that could make things easier and moving heavy stuff that would be helpful

menina · Answer

The fact that they don't have periods.

alance99 · Answer

People talk politely with girls or they are given priority at some people so their work is easily as comapred to guys

DangpMango · Answer

It's 10 times easier to get sex if you're kinda ugly and overweight and short. You're any of those and you're fighting uphill to get any

joeldalton · Answer

The ability to get laid whenever they want.

Myylkie · Answer

No harrassement, pee standing, less social pressure

Peterpete150 · Answer

I envy that women feel no attraction to the opposite gender and that they don't really care about the opposite gender.

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

They can make babies.

Anis09 · Answer

They don't have menstrual period

KatherineJ · Answer

They can pee standing up.

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