Why some guys like to get manipulated by their exes?

kitty71

Are they immature, stupid or what? Is my couisin this dumb? I have a 47yrd old cousin who has 2 teenage kids. The son lives with him, the daughter with the mother. The mother has another kid from another relationship, the new daughter 4 years old but she is not married to the new baby`s father. My cousin and the ex had been separated for more than 11 years now. But since she was with my cousin she had a peculiar behavior and the family not always had fond of her anyway, she was a very manipulative convicng woman and treated my cousin not very good in certain aspects of theri relationship, but he was so infatuated or really in love that he never noticed that. He always like to please her and he always were convinced. like he never stood up for himself. What she asked, he did.

She always like to behave like she was a rich woman and aim high, just becuse my cousin works for a law firm, she had to be seen like this lady who has nice things, when in reality this lady was raised in a humble simple household with no luxury, she was even into drugs when she met my cousin and she was very young. My cousin always liked her since he met her for a very first time more than 25 y rs ago, she is younger than him. Since they got separated my cousin pays her alimony and still does. They say they get along better now that they are separated.

Anyway it loosk like that at this moment, the lady still manipulates my cousin in him doign her things or please her such as asking him to buy her things or do things for her or help her in things and my cousin go like a puppy and please her, maybe she feels she is entitled cause she still is the mothehr of his kids but my cousin is no longer in a relationship with her, romantically but still is manipulated

Why some guys like to get manipulated by their exes?
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