I feel like I am a loser... failure.. I dont have energy for any thing.. I am late for my friends.. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I am a doctor.. I was in a relationship for 7 years and then after our engagement he cheated on me and left me for her.. I am 30 yo.. I got depressed and stayed at home for 5 months.. Now I look at my friends success and say I lost everything I feel like a failure and I have no energy to do anything

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Please don't do this to yourself! The fact that you reached out to get some help says a lot! There is always time to change. I would suggest that you find what you enjoy doing and spend as much time you can with your friends. You do have your job so you at least won't start from 0. You are also still young so you can do great when it comes to having a boyfriend. Take care of your body the best way you can and keep been sweet and feminine and you'll find a guy that will want to be with you! Good luck!

[NerdInDenial]

First rule in being happy: stop comparing yourself to other people. You have a prestigious job, and I'm assuming you have decent lifestyle outside of relationships. You are in "depressed" state which is understandable. You should talk to someone either close to you or some friends to release the anger and hurt. Set the bar low for things outside of relationships. Try to enjoy the small pleasures in life again. The scent and taste of good food or having that really awesome latte, etc. When you enjoy the simple pleasures in life, you will move yourself out of this state. Also, go do physical activity.

[SamIam96]

There's a lot to be depressed about these days. Politics, world affairs, finances. And, of course being betrayed in your long relationship.

Posting here certainly isn't great therapy, but it's better than no therapy. I have two friends that I message with. It's been very helpful if you're not ready for something more structured.

Whatever you do, you don't need to be alone. Help is available in different forms. Talk to someone.

[SamIam96]

DM if you want a sympathetic ear..

[Slotbot]

Ur a doctor. I'd be super proud to take u home to my parents.
Things take time n everyones different.
I was with my first ever girlfriend for 13 years n her me take health went down hill n she left me.
That was 5 years ago n I'm only just beginning to try n start my life again.
It hit me hard.
But don't measure ur progress by anyone else's.

U will get there

[mobiusforniner]

Start by loving yourself. you're a god damn doctor, girl. How many women have endured the educational challenge to receive that distinction? Carry that with pride. Value yourself and you'll find someone who values you.

[Noahzaid]

Where does your ex boyfriend live, Dear?

[slatyb]

See a therapist, perhaps a psychiatrist. A great therapist helped me when I was a bit older than you.

[ArtemisSilver]

You're still a doctor. Get back out there and work part time, maybe help the poor. Service to others is the remedy for your pain.

[Guardian45]

Sound like the doctor needs healing. Find a good therapist and Heal Thyself!

[Anonymous]

Try morphine.

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