Atr guys who get "friend zoned" usually attractive in some regard?

[Anonymous]

I'm asking this because I'm considered somewhat unattractive & I'm either squabbling with a female over her dislike towards me or we just downright hate each other on sight or feel uncomfortable

So I'm just contrasting

[Kryptocyn]

I'm considered attractive and I've been friend zoned, looks matter to people that fall in love on different degrees, some people consider it negligible or a bonus and some people only care about looks. I'm not going to lie to you and say personality is the only thing that matters to everyone in the world but it's a big part of falling in love with someone. You should work on yourself, better yourself. You should focus on keeping fit and it will improve your mental health. I know you are close to this and have a great starting point. I KNOW YOU CAN. People overestimate what they can achieve in a year but underestimate what they can achieve in 5 years. Wish you all the best.

[Asker]

So most guys who are "friends zoned" are initially attractive if they were able to be "friends" with a gal or even guy in general?

[Kryptocyn]

They could be either attractive or unattractive. Think about what I've said. Wish you all the best.

[Asker]

Hmm so why do I get into squabbles with girl from the get go?

[Kryptocyn]

Ask yourself is it the way you conversate with them, maybe you don't listen fully, definitely talking to the wrong people, I know this doesn't happen as often as much as you think it does. They are most likely robots🙂

[Asker]

I just show up & they either scowl, avert eyes while shutting them slowly, or look at me angrily

[Kryptocyn]

Zombots (zombie and a robot). They don't define you. Imma about to sleep I live in the UK. Need someone to talk to. DM me.