Do hot guys get friend zoned?

[Anonymous]

Do girls ever friend zone guys that they find attractive? Because I don't see how 2 people that are obviously attracted to each other can remain just friends. But lets say a girl is in a relationship with another guy but a guy she thinks is hot starts showing interest in her . She really wants that guy but she doesn't want to ruin her current relationship because she doesn't know if he's a player or not. Would most girls still try to be friends and constantly flirt with him or just cut things off so they don't get tempted to cheat? Lets assume the girl is in a happy relationship but she is really attracted to the guy.

[Anonymous]

From my experience, girls can definitely friend zone a guy she finds attractive if she doesn't think he's a good fit for boyfriend material. Walking that line can be tough, though. It works better if it's an attractive guy that she doesn't have a strong desire for, which can happen. I've had it happen. But I've also had guy friends that I've slept with when we were both single. It happens both ways.

Most girls would try to avoid being around a guy they're sexually attracted to if they're in a happy relationship. Also, when girls are physically pair bonded to a guy near the beginning of a relationship, her attention and desire for other men seems to decrease.

Some girls are manipulative (just as some guys are) and try to line up a "backup plan" even if they're with a great person. I'd be wary of this type of person.

[Anonymous]

I don't care how attractive he/she is, if I'm taken.. I'm taken. The End. I'm not a cheater, and it has NOTHING to do with how good, bad, hot, ugly, or whatever, the person I'm dating is .. I'm just not a cheater... it disgusts me to be that disrespectful to another human being. If I wanted out of my current relationship, I'd put my big girl pants on respectfully talk to my partner about the relationship being over...

[Asker]

Cool I can respect that.

[Opinion Owner]

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[Iknowuwantthis]

Yeah.. well girls aren't like visual creatures like guys. We're more emotional. And if we don't feel emotionally compatiable with a guy regardless of physical attraction we won't go for you unless were shallow trying to impress other girls and for the social status of dating a hot guy

[Jd1729]

Girls will friend zone guys even if they find them attractive. It could be for a variety of reasons actually. Girls will likely stay friends with a guy they find attractive even if they have a boyfriend. Not to say they would act on it but most girls enjoy having male friends. I've studied a lot about this subject and have actually written a book about it on Amazon called "The Art of the Alpha Male", about how dating and relationships. It may be of value to you. Hope this helps :)

[Asker]

Cool I'll check your book out. So do you think 2 people that are both attracted to each other could have a relationship as just friends?

[Jd1729]

Thanks! I think its certainly possible, but at some point most of the time someone will develop feelings. That is what happens the majority of the time, just don't let it be you. The best way to avoid it is to keep your options open and don't dismiss anyone else just because you like her.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely! There is way more to relationships than being attracted to each other. I've had many guy friends who I've been attracted to, but I'll rather be friends with them if I enjoy their company and want to keep it that way, it isn't the right time, I see things not working out, etc there's so many reasons.

[LittleMissy93]

Yes because if I dislike their personality I will friendzone him. Or if there's that one thing he does that I find really irritating or if I think it wouldn't last... I friendzone everyone ;)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

He can if he has no sex appeal. Some guys are goofy and little boyish and not sexy

[Asker]

But what if you think they are sexy?

[Anonymous]

Well there's this dude whos actually really cute and he's been flirting with me all year, and he asked me out but I rejected him because I just didn't find conversations with him that interesting. So yes, they do.

[Anonymous]

That rarely ever happens.