Do guys actually friendzone girls or is it due to bad timing?

[Prettyinpink2000]

This guy was showing all the signs of interest. My friends were noticing. Then a new girl comes to school and they start hanging out. I confronted him telling him that I'm confused and he goes: "You're a great girl and I really like hanging out with you and I've never thought of it like that. we'll figure it out" I don't take this as him friend zoning me tho? I feel like he was trying to chose between me and her. The we'll figure it out part is strange. He also kept asking me if I did like him and how I feel about the situation? Anyways- he keeps snap chatting me still and I ignored him for a while and he continues to double snap me. BUT he keeps hanging out with this girl... Am I friendzoned or?

Friendzoned

He's leaving his options open

Other

Never saw me in that way, but I peeked his interest

[einjhel32]

Guys friendzoned girls, that’s a fact. I am actually one right now, my guy friend says he loves me, he even text me almost every day when he wake up to be my alarm, and before he doze off to sleep at night. When we’re w each other it’s like we’re the only people there even tho we’re not. He even assured me that when the time is right we’ll be together. Not until found out he that has a girlfriend bcoz he feel intimidated by me. So I think you are being frienzoned. I hurts but you learn a lot from it.

[mary_mimi]

i learned that all my guy friends left me as a back up plan
years after friendship and their failing relationship they would "suddenly" confess and even ask me for marriage which is the most insulting and hurting experience i ever went through and tbh i learned from that to never have guy friends because the same scenario happened to me many times

[Ccmama]

They actually friendzone them. I was friendzoned twice by my guy friends who gave mixed signals. I guess they just decided in the end that they didn’t want to be with me and rather have someone else.

[10dsw]

"You're a great girl and I really like hanging out with you and I've never thought of it like that. we'll figure it out"

What this actually means:

"You're a great girl but there's no way I'd consider a relationship with you - I just don't know how to tell you without hurting your feelings."

I'm sorry but this is FLAT OUT rejection - good luck

[Mathart]

well you want him and he is trying to choose between 2 girls. and you ignore him so he has one option...

[Svennedude2]

He's leaving his options open. If you're scared of catching feelings for him, I would distance myself from him.

[Anonymous]

I just friendzone fat girls. Some of them are useful for se during a dry period but I would want to be seen with a fatty

[DamnMan]

No one can friendzone you, you friendzone yourself.
THey can string you alone though, so watch out

Yes, guys can do that if they already have a girlfriend who is hotter than you.

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

Where's the "he's a douchebag who's playing the field" option?

[bekkesmash]

Women get bangzoned (they would sleep with you but not date you) not friendzoned, as men aren't friends with girls they wouldn't bang in the first place.

[4Elements]

I've been friendzoned twice. It's uncommon but possible.

[kenjaminSlutton716]

I friend zone them cause I don't trust any yeah we can fool around or whatever but that's it

[Danny_dan92]

I've friend zoned a few girls

[Antonio_]

Lol of course guys friend-zone girls

[Insanyx12]

I didn't notice she loved me till she was gone

[Anonymous]

girls do not friendzone men. men friendzone women

[Anonymous]

friendzone