Girls, Could You Be In A Relationship With a Guy Who Was More Emotional Than You? Guys, Could You Be Friends With An Emotional Guy?

[Aphrodite801]

Yes I could (Girls)

Yes I could (Guys)

No I could not (Girls)

No I could not (Guys)

A total of 28 votes were cast: 19 girls and 9 guys. See detailed results

[Nomina]

It sounds horrible but no, I can't, I'm sorry.

I don't even like it when I get emotional, so to be with a guy who's more emotional than the times I get emotional would be a nightmare.

I try to get a handle on my emotions as they come and work through them so that I remain even-tempered as often as possible. That's something I look for in a guy as well.

[Nazgol]

No. Too much is annoying. I'd need him to be manly & hold it back control himself a bit

[Rosexøxø]

Okay emotional, but not an emotional wreck..

Seeing that picture makes me think of a kid/ child, who’s very emotional… very NOT in control of their emotions. There’s a lot of emotionally intelligent people. For example:

Hopeless romantics, who have an appreciation for the arts. Great sentimentalists, and I wouldn’t mind my man being like that. If he’s emotionally chaotic/ toxic/ and everything out the wazoo…

ehh, it’s not gonna work for me because I’m not even interested in helping someone learn something their parents should have taught them in the first placed, nor raising any kids.

Now if he has his struggles and blind spots, and vocalizes any time I possibly hurt him- I’m all for that. We’ll work through it, try to help him grow and progress.

I can do the emotionally aware/ mature/ intelligent guy- not the emotionally turbulent/ adolescent guy. I’m not even a certified Psychiatrist, now why would I want to do that full time. 👀👌

[Rosexøxø]

Voted A 🤜🤛

but it’s with exception.. lol I’m almost cringing inside and hoping I’m not emotionally turbulent 😂. No one needs extra of that, for real.

[Louis-1]

I think most of the girls who say yes don't understand their own psychology as well, from what i have seen you really prefere guys that are level headed and stoic in that sense,

not regarding puppies, or babies or you

but when it comes to fears, or losing your cool or simply crying when hit by adversity, no, no you don't like it one bit, don't kid yourself, and to be honest that makes evolutionary sense, how can a guy that can't face and deal with issues provide for others?

(the problem though is that the social standards have become rather skewed, just to be fair, we also want inocence and purity in women, sort of, that is kind of hard to find now)

[Aphrodite801]

No one cares what you think, don’t try to speak for people. Weirdo.

[emeraldsaphire]

I love emotionally expressive people, but there is a difference between being emotionally expressive and emotionally unstable. If we can share emotions, then that creates a super strong bond. So the more, the merrier, I say. However, if that person is unable to control those emotions, and it comes out in angry outbursts, fits of jealousy, obsessive fear of abandonment, then I don't think you are ready to date at all. You need to work on developing your emotions first.

[Aphrodite801]

So yes or no

[emeraldsaphire]

lol yes

[inhua]

if I'm unable to show any progress in tampering his emotions, probably no.

[nolabels]

I wear my heart on my sleeve, but I'm not a crybaby. I have friends.

I have friends who are emotional as well.

All to the better as far as I'm concerned.

[Minahh]

Yeah I love emotional guys