Is it wrong that I feel lonely and want a partner?

[jaydaiscurious]

So I recently have been feeling so lonely and kind of wish I have a boyfriend. Also when my friends talk about their 'ups' as they call them (basically people they're 'talking to'), I kind of feel a type of way. I'm very serious about relationships, so I don't do hookups, links ups, or whatever. Also, if I'm not interested, I wouldn't 'talk' to people because I think it's a waste of time, and why would I do that if I'm not interested? Just for the fun of it? I think that's unnecessary. My friends usually say I should just slash the rules and 'enjoy life', but what should I do?

[kylee2437]

In a sense, I agree with your friends. I think sometimes you need to open up to meeting different people because a future boyfriend doesn’t automatically come from men that you are all the way interested in at first. You are going to be in for a lot of disappointment when you only open your doors up to men you find all the way worthy. It takes time to get to know people and sometimes it’s the guys that you wouldn’t Initially go for that treat you the best.

[bubblegunnn]

U r not wrong at all tho!! Its natural and its normal if want a partner to fulfil ur life so u ain't lonely no more.. also thats great if u dont do hookup and casual things.. girl u have a value.. find good guy who willing to do committed relationship w u as both of u r in love.

U seeing anybody yet?

[jaydaiscurious]

no one at the moment. The guy I like doesn't show up for lectures 😭

[bubblegunnn]

Then find him socmed

[matheus_mb]

It's not wrong at all, don't worry. What you should think about is if you're happy being the way you are. If you wanna break your own rules but stick to them for whatever reason, maybe you should try something different. If you don't wanna break your rules though, just stick to them and try to find someone who thinks like you.

[Noahzaid]

Never listen to your friends, you’re doing great.

The right guy would come at the right time.

[Alperengin4]

Its not wrong at all. I would be your boyfriend if we liked each other

[Anonymous]

No, that’s quite normal and especially this time of year.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Maybe we can chat and just talk about whatever.

[jaydaiscurious]

like that