Please help, What should I do?

[koko22]

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, and i have been seeing someone that has always had a crush one since forever. We have been seeing each other for the past 3months and everythings ok, despite the fact that his engaged to someone else. (Now dont judge me you know how love and entanglements can be sometimes) i knew about his engagement prior to us having this relationship together. So what started as a small entanglement has matured into something serious to qn extent were we both have developed feelings for each other... His now claims to be in a confused state were his stuck between who to choose. Me or his fiance. So now am also stuck what should i do? Should i leave him or should i stay until he decides who he wants to be with? Can someone love two people at the same time?

[caring__1]

Yes, it's possible to love multiple people. We just love them in different ways for different reasons.

You've given this guy a taste of what a relationship with you would be like. Now, it's time for you to back off and let him decide what direction he wants to go. Staying in the threesome will only complicate all three of your lives. Just back away and see what he chooses. Let it be his choice with no outside influence from you, and then respect that choice.

I understand he's had a long-term crush on you, but someone who is willing to cheat with you is just as likely to cheat on you.

[MementoMori777]

Well I don't know what's going to happen but if I try to put it together my hypothesis is that since you didn't give yourself enough time to heal from your recent breakup, if he chooses you, you ruin a marriage and when you get together your emotions for your ex can get in the way and you can lose this relationship as well, there's good people out there and weither you want to accept it or not you are getting in the way of a marriage, I don't know if it's a happy marriage but it doesn't change the fact that you are getting in between a marriage, considering the fact that he can't choose creates the assumption that she's a good person as well.

[koko22]

Thank you for your matured advise.

[MementoMori777]

Np, best of luck with the situation, remember that if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world, just a step closer to your soulmate

[Guy13]

I’m so black and white that would choose one, risk, and see what happens. I get you’re almost 30 and “have to” make the right decision. Tough situationship ‼️

[weysally]

in my opinion, no person cannot love two people at the same time, with exceptions, I love my husband, and I love my two daughters but differently,

[Anonymous]

Don't forget about it completely, but walk away from this and wait it out.

[Mtbgirl]

Walk away. What you are doing isn’t right.

[panamared1]

Do what is best for you

[Anonymous]

Can I ask you something