Is it normal for my wife to divorce me after finding out I had cheated on her?

[Anonymous]

Okay my wife and I meet freshmen year of college where she had sex with 9 guys in one year in her freshmen year and none of them were boyfriends. I had lost my virginity to her at 20 in my second year of college I was shy and nervier to have sex before her and once I did have sex I had gained a lot of confidence so in my junior year she studied abroad and I didn’t go because I love to watch the Seattle Mariners and Seahawks. So she went and she stayed faithful the entire time but I didn’t and ended up fucking a girl who I had just made out with before in my freshmen year of college. I had also had a one night stand during that semester and had sex with an old high school girlfriend who I had never had sex with when we dated during Thanksgiving break. Now since we started dating in 2014 I have cheated on her with 15 women. However I have stopped cheating on her and I had no plan on ever cheating on her ever again in our marriage until she found out yesterday about my affairs when she read an old text from a woman I had sex with a couple of months ago and she had stateted to scream at me and asked how many women I had sex with and I reluctantly told her the number because she was yelling and pressuring me to and she then started sobbing and told me that we have to get a divorce. I begged her not to and told her we can go to couples counseling and that I would never ever cheat on her again but she felt super betrayed by me and told me that she wants to sign divorce papers as soon as next week and has moved out and has deleted and blocked my number and blocked me from all of her social media accounts and one of her friends is communicating to me from her until we get our divorce finalized and then we will officially stop all contact. Like I am freaking out and devestated that she left me and want to stay married to her but she is refusing to ever talk to me again. I wish I could get her back and I just feel like she is overreacting to all of this

[Vesuvius87]

Her past relationships before she met you is irrelevant. That doesn't matter. What matter is you've been sleeping with others during your marriage and that's cheating regardless if she was your first or not. Cheating is cheating and yes she has the right to file for divorce.

If she wants to divorce you, then let her choose what she wants just like you chose to cheat. You no longer have control over her actions (to divorce you) just like she had no control over your cheating. Don't even beg; that's very manipulative and pathetic of you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Being cheated on is sort of a big deal. Especially when you know you could've fucked a bunch of strange but chosen to respect your partner and then the partner goes full cheat mode. You've demonstrated a clear pattern and you can't really blame her for not wanting to deal with that being her other half.

You sort of remind me of one of my friends. He was cheating and drinking like crazy and then wondered why his chick wouldn't even suck his dick or have sex anymore. Called me crying and asking "what should I do" and I just don't have an answer for that type of shit. I can't tell this man shit, and neither can she.

[Summeroflove]

If you cheated on her. Yeah…. That’s normal. Stop excusing your bad behavior

[Kori1236]

Dude cheating is cheating. How many people she was with before you is irrelevant. The fact that she was your first is also irrelevant. The issue is that you cheated on her several times during your relationship. I fully support her divorcing you. If you can’t respect her enough to remain faithful you don’t deserve her.

[Fireguy17]

Yes.
What do you think would happen.
I did the same to my ex wife when I caught her, and dumped a long term relationship for the same reason.

[Anonymous]

GAG community, i recommend not taking these questions seriously and go on about your day.

[LazerBean]

Yes, and that's exactly what you deserve.

[exitseven]

you are all done.