I believe in the code of silence,
i was brought up by immagrants. With strong cultural/ ethnic and even mafia ties
i was taught at a young age, to never call any type of authoritys for any reason what so ever, And every problem can be resolved among familys/ people. On the street,
I've also ben wired to think, if your cousin does somthing wrong, thats your problem too………
this is how me and my family keep eachother in check, If someone has a problem with my cousin,
a beef, money owed, somthing. They can come to me. And il take care of it within the family.
call it old school, But thats how i was brought up,KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!!!
even if you gotta eat sh*it,
and Take and own your mistakes and punishments for them like a man.
its called accountability
even if my life was in danger,i would never run to the police
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Absolutely I would keep it a secret! No snitching. Especially with a partner, there should be a level of trust between you. If your partner trusts you enough to confess their crime, you shouldn't betray that trust. I do have some limits though. Mostly sex-crimes shouldn't be kept to yourself. But If I was really in love with someone, it's probably safe to tell me about that murder she committed in 1998. Maybe not. It's hard to know when it's hypothetical.
Of course. Snitches get stiches, that's one rule my toxic family taught me.
Unless it's something like rape. I ain't dating a rapist, and I ain't protecting him for it either. He should burn in hell.
Totally cool if it's about vandalism or something. Shoplifting 😚😍. I can turn a blind eye to minor crimes.
Limits=
- rape
- multiple murder
- child death
- something literally gag-inducing
- hiding the body
As for the crime, it honestly depends. If they had to kill someone, I most likely keep it a secret. However, just for the hell of it... I'll keep it a secret... and as soon they fall asleep, Disappear. :)
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I think it depends on the crime. I'd hate that they committed a crime.
My limits? Rape. Murder. Anything with a child. Something where I'd get dragged down with them if they got caught. Probably espionage.
Other stuff I'd have to think about.
Probably not; depends on the crime and how their story comes together.
I’d be down for some Robin Hood shit! Short of that and given that i’m fairly skilled at detecting deception in people, i’d probably try to hitch a reward to turning them in. Ell oh ell!My limit would be any crime I find morally wrong, it's not something I can or am willing to deal with for anything less than a dire situation. Murder I usually understand to be wrong but sometimes you need to kill to survive.
I mean it really depends on what the crime is. For example if someone confessed to me that they were a pedophile, a rapist, or a serial killer then I’d definitely go to the police.
However if it’s like “I’m a drug dealer” then I don’t care, I’m not gonna say anything lol. Or even if they confessed to killing someone, I would probably keep it a secret if I felt they killed them for a good reason 💀I'd pretend I didn't hear it, unless of course it was a sexual crime then I'd cut his weenie off and buried it in the forest.
Oh and break up with him.
Depends... did they just stole something small from a store? Yeah whatever
Did he drove over a red light, without causing an accident? Yeah
Have they murdered someone innocent brutally? Probably notIf it's something small like shoplifting or something along those lines it wouldn't be a deal breaker but if it was like rape or murder or anything big then I want no part of that lol.
Already did, and if we are still together you know what it means.
She's a really patient and kind woman, but you don't really want to push her past her limit. I know I don't.
Most likely not. Unless it's something really small like petty theft or a traffic violation.
But anything beyond that, I'd leave them.
And if it's higher like assault, molestation, murder etc. I'm turning them in.Not sure of the limit. If it were a victimless crime I wouldn't report anyone. If it were something about harming a child, she's going to prison. in between I'd have to really look at the specifics.
It depends on if he did anything wrong and not based on what the criminals that makes laws call a crime.
I guess it would depend on the reasoning and a limit for me would be if anything happened to a child or an elderly person!
I would have him arrested, it doesn't matter the crime. If he does something illegal, I call the cops.
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It depends on what it is and it depends on the reason why the did it.
Yes, as long as I don't consider him dangerous for me
Damn, why would I? No limits, they could commit a mass shooting and I'd be fine with it as long as they're not going to jail.
Hopefully whatever was confessed to. Would not give me the same punishment as if I committed it. If I didn’t report it.
If that was the case. Then, see you in a few years!No comment
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The answer is yes. Unless it involved sexual assault of a minor that would be deal breaker.
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