Poured my heart out and left on read?

[Anonymous]

Long story short is we were a things briefly , then turned just friends. I had been chasing a while still with it going no where but just friends.

I legitimately threw it all on the table and how I felt and told him I did t want to be just friends , but also I couldn’t be his friend.

I was left on read. It’s been 2 days now. Should I consider that a response, or think he needs times to think?

[UniquelyBasic]

I dont think it should take him 2 days to think about it. He probably knows how he feels and doesn't want to tell you for whatever reason.

[Asker]

So take it as lack of feelings

[UniquelyBasic]

When you said you were a "thing", what did you mean? Dating, or you just slept together?

[Asker]

We were sleeping together for a bit

[UniquelyBasic]

Seems he doesn't have romantic feelings for you.

[Asker]

Well that’s obvious lol I did state that I knew that to him as well.. wasn’t a matter of asking how he feels.. I told him my feelings , knowing where his were at , stating I couldn’t be a friend to him due to my feelings.. not a word

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe he's just hoping it gets swept under the rug by not acknowledging it? I would've responded within 2 days if I got a text like that so I can't think of any specific reason why he wouldve read it and didn't respond.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

He's not interested. Don't chase anyone to be with. It's humiliating and in the process you will lose yourself respect.

[Asker]

Well I stated to him I know he wasn’t interested as well.. more or less just told him my feelings , acknowledged his , and stated I couldn’t be a friend because of how I feel but I did t hear back.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Good enough.

[Sevenpointfive]

that's an answer in my opinion

[User3191989]

better to do it in person