During my relationship, I have to be honest and say I did have a bit of insecurity. Not about not trusting my partner or being jealous etc. My insecurity was that I didn't feel I was getting the right amount of attention I needed. Some say validation. And when I saw she was OK with everyone else, it used to run me anxious from time to time.
However, 3 years relationship was overall good. I believe my attachment style is anxious. She sounds more dismissive avoidance. She broke up a week ago because she said she couldn't bare it anymore. I didn't beg or plead much apart from saying don't, reconsider pls etc. And she said no and left. She partially blocked me and ever since then I didn't text or reach out whatsoever. Do I have another chance in the future?
However, 3 years relationship was overall good. I believe my attachment style is anxious. She sounds more dismissive avoidance. She broke up a week ago because she said she couldn't bare it anymore. I didn't beg or plead much apart from saying don't, reconsider pls etc. And she said no and left. She partially blocked me and ever since then I didn't text or reach out whatsoever. Do I have another chance in the future?
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Probably not especially since it was your insecurities that pushed her away for the future I would say that's somthing u should work on
Maybe if you give her time to cool off, but I wouldn't hold my breath, if I were you.
Yeah... I even tried today to make her realise but she has just turned blind to the reality. So instead I said even if you beg I don't want u anymore... and blocked her. I feel even better now. Ain't gonna sit down and wait for someone willing to end a relationship for shitty reasons. She ain't worth that 3 years of effort.
Uh… that was probably for the best, but dude, she already ended the relationship, she just wasn’t going scorched earth on you
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