Treat the opposite sex with respect. Especially girls need this. Because they are so often valued first, or foremost, for their sexuality and attractiveness/beauty.
Next, you've got to physically be out of the house and actually go places. And not the same, identical places all the time. (Although familiarity is good.)
Then you've got to chat up various people, eyes up, not always down, on a phone, avoidant.
And then have something interesting to say. Or an interesting way to say a basic thing. (Language is very powerful.) Learn about the way, stay up on current events, have passion for at least a few things, be open-minded (this last one is the universal top of the list for both sexes, quite often), and be open to riffing with people, discussing, dissecting. People want to feel heard, listened to, and if you can do that, and also respond with some insightful or witty or clever things in reply, than you will become someone they want, and enjoy having in their life.
Then there is the doing. "All talk, no action", men hate. (Women, not so much. They like talk.) So you express caring for the person by small actions, that show you are thinking about them, what they like, want, need, etc. If you combine this utility, along with a genuinely interesting personality that others want to be around, then love might follow.
Is that too vague, abstract?
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Food... Maybe leave a trail of venison and ice cream if you want me to love you.
By being an attractive person who enjoys their life now who has a passion and purpose in life. Love will take notice of this and come your way.
By giving love -- showing consideration for others around you.
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Honestly, I wouldn’t know. Never been in love or have someone be in love with me.
If you are ugly you can't. So, sorry ;v god didn't put your life on easy difficulty. He choose hardcore mode for you.
It always find me 🤣🤣🤣
Be the person other people want to be around. Don't see love as romantic.
By getting out of your bubble and making it clear you're available.
to get love, you must exude love
By loving yourself first...
With peanut butter in a cage trap.
Doing a rain dance
By not being desperate
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