Do you believe in the 'right person at the wrong time'?

[Still-alive]

What i mean by this is you meet someone you might consider your soul mate and get along with them soooo well that its beyond comprehension. yet due to circumstances like you're super busy or whatever other reason you just can't get with this person?

So the right person for you at the wrong time. and perhaps had you met sooner or later than right at this moment you would go for it.

do you believe this? or do you believe if you truly met a person like this... no matter what is going on in your life.. you will make time for them because you don't want to lose them?

Yes there is such a thing as meeting the right person at the wrong time

No if you truly like and care for a person that much it doesn't matter where you are in life at that moment you would make time for them

[SoftCliff]

Absolutely. People can have chemistry and connection but not the emotional bandwidth or maybe even actual time for a romantic pursuit given any number of life circumstances.

Speaking more generally, it's just like an opportunity. The opportunity has to be there, and then you have to be ready to take advantage of the opportunity. Both things have to happen, only one won't work. The opportunity could be there, but you're just not ready to move or you don't recognize it. Or you could be ready and waiting, but there's just no opportunity.

[AsaKyo]

I was gonna say "no", but yes, I do.

It doesn't always have to be limited to you or the other person being in a relationship or college studies, but it can be that you are not in the right place mentally and feel that you may be too unstable to make something work with them. You may care about them and may want it to work with them so bad, but as long as those mental struggles are holding you back, it's just not going to. You have to let them go and work on yourself... :(

[inhua]

sure if you believe in destiny...

maybe John and Jane are meant to be soulmates.

John happens to be 5'6, 315 lbs, no legs, earning 2K a year and Jane is a supermodel

years go by and Jane has banged Chad, Brad, Lad and Dad while John is transforming and saving himself for marriage.

by the end John is 6'4 greek god with titanium legs earning 10M a year and Jane has gained 300 lbs and is depressed.

[JDavid25]

Nah, that's a more modern concept in the West today.. People back in the day met the right person for them, and made it work through hard times, but us to feel like we should just put people off because we don't have time for them instead of working through it together..

[Aerissa_Jade]

Yeah like if you meet them but are already in a relationship, that is the wrong time. As no one is going to just up and end their current relationship for that other person in a attempt to make time for them on the spot.

[hafinjun]

And that's just how it works

[Guy13]

I think that premonition is real.

[petitedollbabee]

No, I believe we meet everyone when we’re supposed to. We get taught life lessons. It might feel that we’ve met the perfect person at the wrong time, but there’s no such thing as the wrong time, and meeting this person at the “wrong time” will give us a life lesson that helps us make our way to the right person at the right time.

[SphynxUK]

I was aware what this meant lol, and yes, I think it’s ‘a thing’.
You can meet someone and not be in a position to put your all into it. Perhaps because you are moving, leaving the country, starting a new job, too busy studying, you’re with another person, or having just split from someone. If you can’t commit to that person because of timing, you just have to let it be. If it’s going to happen at the right time it will.

[CrazyGirl2]

Sure, it could happen. Maybe you have a neighbor who is absolutely perfect for you and he feels the same way, but you are 16 and HE is 25. Maybe if you would have met just 2 or three years later, it would have been perfect. But by the time you are 18 you have a boyfriend, and when you break-up, he has a girlfriend…. I could imagine lots of reasons why you have a right person wrong time, situation.

[MountAverage]

Not sure I understand what you mean. What part of it exactly is up for debate? People fall in love all the time without actually ending up together, due to circumstances. So, what's the controversial part?

[Still-alive]

because people constantly say that if you truly met that special person.. no matter how busy you are you will find time for them.

do you disagree with that?

[MountAverage]

And what do those people say about all the people that fall in love but don't end up together?

[Still-alive]

i dunno lol...

so did you agree with that or not? sounds like you disagree.

[MountAverage]

I don't know, I can't say without knowing what the claim really is.

[Still-alive]

the claim is 'it's impossible to meet the right person at the wrong time because if you truly did meet the right person you will make time regardless of how busy you are.'

do you agree or disagree with that?

[MountAverage]

Sounds like spiritual mumbo-jumbo to me.

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. And our separation remains the most painful experience in my life. I've generally moved on from my past breakups in a few months. This... no this has been over a year and i cannot purge her from my heart.

[menina]

Yes, I think this can happen. You can't be at the wrong place in life or you might not be ok physically or mentally.

[melanieeeB]

No, I think the right person will try to workout through the wrong timing

[hafinjun]

Yes they will a lot of the time, but doing a juggling act like that you end up with empty hands

[kevypatyy7]

I do believe because most you meet the right person when you are most vulnerable so they are the right one, they will make time for you and understand what you are going through

[lalaloveee]

If the person is @pers0n, it's better if I never come across with that trans haahaha.

[pers0n]

I'm not sure if I understood that correctly.

[bean2k22]

@pers0n was transvestigated by the Church of @bean2k21.

[pers0n]

@bean2k22 he still hasn't cuckvestigated me because that required us first to and we couldn't pregvestigate him, which was pending after a successful picnic transvestigation of @purplepoppy, who made an excuse not to participate being too busy filing a petition to get a genetic test for cuckstin using Canadian carbon taxes.
Can Canadian anti climate change funds and carbon emission taxes afford to fund a genetic test for determining Cuckstin Trandeau's true hidden gender? ↗

[bean2k22]

@pers0n My master bean2k1 is the founder of the Association for Clairvoyant Cuckvestigations and Transcendental Transvestigations, ok, so trust me, he knows.

[pers0n]

@bean2k22 I can feel the inspiration of the bean2k21 spirit filling my lungs with divine heavenly strogen satisfying my sacred androgyny hunger that I won't have to become a physical hermaphrodite.

[pers0n]

@lalaloveee you were right about my estrogen overdose yesterday, @bean2k21 filled my lungs with inspirational divine estrogen.

But I'm upset about not seeing the woman whose selfie you posted yesterday, that was supposed to attend our temple today. Where is she?

[RoosterBreast]

I agree.

[CallmeTheKnight]

"Right person, wrong time" just means the wrong person. It's just an excuse to give hope where it does belong

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes there is such a thing as meeting the right person at the wrong time.

[Mangospacho]

Absolutely. You may have met someone at one stage in life that you won’t appreciate until the next stage.

[AngryCarl]

We are all ships that pass in the night. Monogamy is an illusion.

[SnowedIn]

I absolutely believe this.

[Nikki1989]

No such thing as the wrong time, really.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[llorando]

Can say that I do.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

There are no accidents

[BLYNd]

Sweet suffering, martyrom