Oh yes. Yes. Hundred times yes.
It happens everytime and with everything. It's not just romantic relationships. It's everything. But I think a part of that has to do with how mature you are at each stage. Now, like you'd say you'd do better standing up to your bullies in high school at 24 than at 15.
It's everywhere. It's a psychological phenomenon, doesn't have to mean anything at all.
Its tricky.
Right person, wrong time would be supporting the idea of soulmates in a way, and I dont believe in soulmates. That being said, I do understand that circumstances can really alter your view on a relationship, and whether or not its worth it. This is a thing most logical and rational people do, they don't let themselves fall in love if there is a good chance it will not work out.
If circumstances do change and two people find themselves in situation where they still feel the same and its easier to be together, then they may decide to be together after all. In this case, I do believe in right person, wrong time
No, I view it as right person during the right time. These are the people who are in your life for that brief period as you grow and are there until it is done, then at some point the parting comes.
I don't see it as wrong person right time or vice versa. I see it as the people who are brought in to teach you something.
If they're truly right (and I think that's quite a very rare thing for most of us mortals) inconvenience is no excuse to let them slip away. This isn't something that happens that often.
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Now I am a woman of high self-respect, etc. so don't sleep around.
But this guy was, for me, perfect. Sure not the best looking but I put far more merit to personality than looks. In fact it was near instant attraction.
Anyway I kept my eye on him for two years. Didn't do anything because he was involved. But he made very subtle clues & his friend said he was "sucking up to me". I again didn't go out of my way. But because he was so subtle - and other woman - when he did, all of a sudden, make his interest blatantly clear I froze like a deer in the headlights & said the first stupid thing that came to mind which, of course, he took as rejection.
I finally realized that a boy who had a crush on me in high school who I adored (I thought platonically) might be my dream guy. And I sort of think he might still have feelings for me based on some little things that have happened. But our lives have changed so much that I don’t know if or how to act on that.
Sometimes people come back later on and the timing is right. The timing could be not right due to circumstances or personal reasons. People change all the time and so does life - priorities, character, needs, lifestyles etc... things change.
Yes you could be going through something in your life & there's the one which can be helpful finally an answer to all your prayers or however you want to look at it ✌️
Yep. I met an awesome guy who liked me for who I am but I was going through a dark time in my life that actually lasted a few years. I had to let him go unfortunately.
Yes this is so true some people you wish you met earlier in life and things would’ve made sense. But you also have to consider the person that they are now if they did meet you they probably wouldn’t be the same.
Generally no. I do my research. I wouldn't ask a woman out who was already dating someone. So if she says " I'm already seeing someone" I already know she lying lol
Nope. If they were the right person timing wouldn't matter.
Things would've fell into place
Yes. Just started dating my ex after 6 years.
We were so young back then and had to do our own exploring and learning who we were on our own. We're stronger individuals now and are so great together
I believe I stepped on the wrong butterfly... and now I will never get anyone like her.
I’m not happy, but I’m contented. that’s as much perfect as life gets on this planet
Been there, been through it.
"OUCH!!!"
Yeah totally. Crazy how seemingly insignificant things can change how life plays out, relationships are definitely not exempt from that
For a while I was meeting girls just before they were moving far away for college.
Yes. This was me. I arguably met my soulmate in one of my most depressing times in life, where I had zero self-esteem or self-worth. She died however, so the issue was never resolved.
No, if they’re the right person you can work hard until it is the right time
Of course - that happened to me. Girl I was heads of heels for was still in her "uncertain" phase. Was very much into me, but occasionally wanted to try other guys. Now she is much more mature but with 2 kids. lol
Yes I believe it. It has never happened to me but I still believe it
I think it's a nice mental game to play with yourself.
I've been there, let someone go instead of trying to make it work. Or else I was just a crappy boyfriend and they let me go.
No it's just bad timing, you never find out if it's a good or bad candidate.
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