Do you believe in Right Person Wrong Time?

[coachTanthony]

Yes makes sense

No if it's the wrong time then it's the wrong person

Other ( maybe let me explain in the comments )

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[Angelina25]

Oh yes. Yes. Hundred times yes.
It happens everytime and with everything. It's not just romantic relationships. It's everything. But I think a part of that has to do with how mature you are at each stage. Now, like you'd say you'd do better standing up to your bullies in high school at 24 than at 15.
It's everywhere. It's a psychological phenomenon, doesn't have to mean anything at all.

[ZaZaEstelle]

Its tricky.

Right person, wrong time would be supporting the idea of soulmates in a way, and I dont believe in soulmates. That being said, I do understand that circumstances can really alter your view on a relationship, and whether or not its worth it. This is a thing most logical and rational people do, they don't let themselves fall in love if there is a good chance it will not work out.

If circumstances do change and two people find themselves in situation where they still feel the same and its easier to be together, then they may decide to be together after all. In this case, I do believe in right person, wrong time

[ShadezMcgee]

No, I view it as right person during the right time. These are the people who are in your life for that brief period as you grow and are there until it is done, then at some point the parting comes.

I don't see it as wrong person right time or vice versa. I see it as the people who are brought in to teach you something.

[TurboKid]

If they're truly right (and I think that's quite a very rare thing for most of us mortals) inconvenience is no excuse to let them slip away. This isn't something that happens that often.

[TurboKid]

With that said, I'm very strongly against LDRs typically. Many of my relationships ended when they turned into LDRs. But I hadn't spent enough time with the girl to know for sure that she was the right person. It wasn't like we tried living together or facing hardships together. If I went through all that with a woman and madly in love with her in spite of living together and facing hardships together and something inconvenient happened like I had to move to a distant place for work, that's when I'd have no problem with an LDR. I could patiently wait years while apart for such a truly right one.

[Anonymous]

Now I am a woman of high self-respect, etc. so don't sleep around.

But this guy was, for me, perfect. Sure not the best looking but I put far more merit to personality than looks. In fact it was near instant attraction.
Anyway I kept my eye on him for two years. Didn't do anything because he was involved. But he made very subtle clues & his friend said he was "sucking up to me". I again didn't go out of my way. But because he was so subtle - and other woman - when he did, all of a sudden, make his interest blatantly clear I froze like a deer in the headlights & said the first stupid thing that came to mind which, of course, he took as rejection.

[Azura_88]

He was a manwhore. How the hell can he DARE to attract you when he was ALREADY committed?

[Opinion Owner]

@Azura_88 He did nothing of the sort you stupid cunt or do you not understand what subtle means

[Azura_88]

Mind your language you illiterate old cunt and being subtle doesn't change the fact that he was trying to cheat on that girl.

[Azura_88]

No wonder you females simp around a man. You just excuses like he didn't do anything but he was subtle LOL. It begins with small steps only it's a fact. Not everyone will come at your face directly and approach you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Azura_88 Quiet you useless dumb cunt. As for cheating no but then you're stupid and useless

[Opinion Owner]

@Azura_88 Oh and since you are so stupid, so stupid no man will ever want you, go away. I mean judgmental trash like you are not worth the nine months your mother wasted her life on

[Azura_88]

Lol haha :D what a show. Now get back to your worthless existence.

[Opinion Owner]

@Azura_88 The comical bit, you dumbo, is you originally upvoted my comment and when I called you out as fool you downvoted. Personally you're amusing and simple cause you keep responding. ROFL.

[Azura_88]

Dude cheating begins with being subtle. No committed man will literally tell you "hey I think I love you as well". He will just start with giving you hints, if he doesn't get any response from you then OFCOURSE he won't dare to commit cheating!

[Azura_88]

There's a lot of risk involved for committed people. To make sure you also approve they begin with subtle things..

[Opinion Owner]

@Azura_88 Look dimbo. Will you shut your useless piehole? Hmmm.. You don't know the guy, you don't know that he only got involved with the woman as a last resort, and you know the woman who was really a nasty individual making use of his money. So do yourself a favor & fuck off.

[Azura_88]

Okay old bimbo. You're mentally disturbed and lack courtesy. You asked for an explanation yourself and when you can't argue by logic, you only got cuss words. You're a worthless old cunt who don't deserve a pinch of respect and oxygen. What a waste of life on this earth are you. You just dont know how to talk with people like a normal human then just go fuck off and don't reply. Sort out your mental issues then come back to the internet or gladly die.

[Azura_88]

You're dead pile of a retarded carcass and I won't entertain you anymore. Burn in hell bitch.

[Anonymous]

I finally realized that a boy who had a crush on me in high school who I adored (I thought platonically) might be my dream guy. And I sort of think he might still have feelings for me based on some little things that have happened. But our lives have changed so much that I don’t know if or how to act on that.

[Alyssa11]

Sometimes people come back later on and the timing is right. The timing could be not right due to circumstances or personal reasons. People change all the time and so does life - priorities, character, needs, lifestyles etc... things change.

[PaynefulPleasures]

Yes you could be going through something in your life & there's the one which can be helpful finally an answer to all your prayers or however you want to look at it ✌️

[TsundereMatrix]

Yep. I met an awesome guy who liked me for who I am but I was going through a dark time in my life that actually lasted a few years. I had to let him go unfortunately.

[Justneedtokno]

Yes this is so true some people you wish you met earlier in life and things would’ve made sense. But you also have to consider the person that they are now if they did meet you they probably wouldn’t be the same.

[ChiTown33]

Generally no. I do my research. I wouldn't ask a woman out who was already dating someone. So if she says " I'm already seeing someone" I already know she lying lol

[Miah02]

Nope. If they were the right person timing wouldn't matter.
Things would've fell into place

[Sezrey]

Yes. Just started dating my ex after 6 years.
We were so young back then and had to do our own exploring and learning who we were on our own. We're stronger individuals now and are so great together

[innerman]

I believe I stepped on the wrong butterfly... and now I will never get anyone like her.


I’m not happy, but I’m contented. that’s as much perfect as life gets on this planet

[jerdanro]

I can relate. I still have regrets and probably always will.

[Citizenkirk]

Been there, been through it.
"OUCH!!!"

[Redstang88]

Yeah totally. Crazy how seemingly insignificant things can change how life plays out, relationships are definitely not exempt from that

[exitseven]

For a while I was meeting girls just before they were moving far away for college.

[MCheetah]

Yes. This was me. I arguably met my soulmate in one of my most depressing times in life, where I had zero self-esteem or self-worth. She died however, so the issue was never resolved.

[Brendlolita2]

I‘m so sorry...

[PaynefulPleasures]

My deepest condolences 🙏🕊️

[MCheetah]

@Brendlolita2 @PaynefulPleasures
It was a while ago, but thank you.

[Aquariusmystery]

No, if they’re the right person you can work hard until it is the right time

[OutWestBandit]

Of course - that happened to me. Girl I was heads of heels for was still in her "uncertain" phase. Was very much into me, but occasionally wanted to try other guys. Now she is much more mature but with 2 kids. lol

[Wiredone]

Yes I believe it. It has never happened to me but I still believe it

[loveslongnails]

I think it's a nice mental game to play with yourself.

[slatyb]

I've been there, let someone go instead of trying to make it work. Or else I was just a crappy boyfriend and they let me go.

[Adam1978]

No it's just bad timing, you never find out if it's a good or bad candidate.

[MotorcycleMan]

Yes, happens all the time, or at least might be the right person, wrong time.

[FakeName123]

Bullcrap. If you want to be with someone, you make it happen. End of the story.

[Twalli]

You might meet "the one" when you're with someone else. Since "the one" is always the right person, it would be the wrong time.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

They're still going to be a lesson of some sorts but yes for sure

[Shihab91]

The right person will make you fall in love no matter what in my opinion

[bamesjond0069]

If she's not a virgin then its right person wrong time... missed her shot and its too late now.

[Lena84]

It depends. In my experience, it usually doesn't work out. If they're the right person, timing shouldn't matter.

[Blackcupcake]

Yeah

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes.

[Miristheiss]

No, not generally.

[crazy8000]

Sort of.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

nope

[Slim57]

Could be