Do You Believe In, "Right Person Wrong Time" ?

Question

Nope I don't.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

If it’s us saying bad timing

and we’d prefer a better time that’s us getting picky and not appreciating them or seeing them as a problem.

It also means we don’t trust ourselves to be our complete self around them. Like embarrassed of a dirty home and telling a guest “bad timing,” but if you felt super close to them and you could be yourself AND you loved them, you’d invite them at any time always ENJOYING and appreciating their company, and loving them and trusting of them with being in your life.

If you feel like they can’t understand your situation, it can’t be discussed, and things have to end. It seems like an individual who doesn’t want to be around them or has nothing in them that desires the other and wishes to be with them forever.

The right person always helps us get through. They SHOULD make things appear slightly better and making things a bit easier to solve, cope with, manage through and all.

They only add to your strong parts and your better days. Even the not so good days.

We may want it to be them but feel like we can’t handle. It’s possible we imagined it and our love life under different circumstances or the particular relationship in a different context and find it hard to cope, but if you feel like you can’t solve things with them and you wanted it to start off on better terms or go well, you have to just accept self, accept the situation or don’t adapt and leave the person you love… or adapt and despite maybe a poor communication sense, TRY to talk it out with them, get through it together, and try to be patient with each other, and encourage each other.

Bad timing is a bad mindset or a bad connection. It wasn’t real or we love them but just have to mature a bit and leave the expectations of what you wanted it to be and make do with what it is, and try to make it better.

Build the life with them. Get through life. Decide to live life with them!

Otherwise if you truly don’t love them, or can’t cope and willing to let them go, then do so.

I just think it couldn’t ever be bad timing and if it’s absolutely chaotic or not the scenario we wanted then yeah it can definitely feel like the worst timing-

not because of them, but because our life at that time just absolutely sxcks or close to it. It could be difficult for us.

And the lack of effort and communication could cause us to potentially lose that someone we wanted and could’ve been with and lived a life with.

So it’s a no… but it can be both.

catiecatie · Accepted Answer

Honestly to an extent. Like the individual could be going through some stuff and doesn’t want to bring you in. A toxic relationship and having a nice guy come in. There are different things that can play a factor. But they can also lie, like my ex fling “I need time with my son.” 3 weeks later found another woman. Thank god I didn’t end up like her… pregnant and he left her. I dodged a big bullet!

TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

Of course. I know women who have dated more than one guy at a time, same for guys with women. Which ever one they choose to take the plunge with, they are left with the 'what if I chose wrong?' scenario when things didn't work out for them!

The fact they feel they might have chosen incorrectly possibly wouldn't have happened if the timing was different.

Of course there is the fact they shouldn't have dated more than one at a time, so it serves them right, but it does however mean there is such a thing as wrong timing but possibly for the right person!

bobby_bush_eater · Accepted Answer

No it's an excuse. There can absolutely be very difficult circumstances but if they're truly the right person why not endure and prove to you and them it's right?

If not you choose the way path and it fades to a memory of what if and your excuse is it was the wrong time but it really means I wasn't smart or bold enough to recognize that person

dynamicyandere · Answer

There might be bad timing. But, if they’re  truly  the right person, you’ll get resourceful and figure something out to be together.

Avicenna · Answer

Sure, it's possible sometimes

SphynxUK · Answer

Maybe.
Sort of happened to me when I was younger. With hindsight they were a good match, but it wouldn’t have lasted because my wants and needs are different now. So, contact with them in later life didn’t go beyond a few texts and long calls. I just couldn’t.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Yes. I dated someone for a year and a half and everything was perfect until she had a bunch of large unexpected expenses that put her in a real bind. No fault of her own but she was in a financial mess and she had to work long hours to dig herself out. We agreed to end it. Never fought once.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, unless you mean they are already taken or things like huge age gaps, then yes, because they met you at the wrong time or were born at the wrong time (or you were?).

But otherwise no, I don't buy into that "you need to do other life goal shit before finding love" nonsense.

An SO isn't going to halt your career path, run away because you're stressed or poor, or mess up your college courses. Its always the right time for the right person.

sawno · Answer

Hard to say, I lost the perfect relationship because we couldn't accomplish some important things in time and the lockdowns were still in the way. But simultaneously without the lockdowns I may have never met her.

James_Likes_PPL · Answer

if a man is getting his life together or dating someone else, but is open to dating later down the road: 👍

if a women wants to get her life together, or is dating someone else, but is open to dating later down the road: 👎

DizzyDesii · Answer

Maybe potential person, wrong time. I feel if they were truly “right” then they wouldve come at the right time

Mr_Citizen · Answer

Not really. If they were the right person, then it would always be the right time.

The only time I can really see this being applicable is if one person just got out of a bad relationship and isn't ready for a new one even if it's with the right person.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I do. A person in depression that could be a great guy but pushes everyone away.

Somoneelse · Answer

No. I don't believe in it. I think there is never a wrong time with the right person. Sometimes we only say this as an excuse to prevent the painful truth.

Jkgordon · Answer

It depends becsuse if the person is right the timing is good end of story

blueonblack22 · Answer

Yeah I had this very much happen a few years ago.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

"If there's a will, there's a way."

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yes, dating and relationships as a whole are entirely based on timing.

Radiate143 · Answer

No, there is NEVER the wrong time for the right person.

jahaims · Answer

Nah, that is a cop out. If someone is the right one you will rearrange everything to make it work.

elizamichale1 · Answer

A right person will always be right mo matter when

Glideess · Answer

Definitely, people can change over time and grow. I'm a completely different person today than I was 5 years ago. Ironically, meeting the 'right person at the wrong time' can be a catalyst for that sort of growth.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Yes it's happened I'm sure lol, still single here so *swish 😚😅👀👋🏻

Fireguy17 · Answer

I've had that happen to me a few times. Just bad timing.

Jennz6 · Answer

Sorta, it is never a bad person or right time

SolitarySolace · Answer

No. I don't believe there is such a thing as the right person

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes. You can each have obligations far away that will keep you apart. Been there.

boobliker · Answer

Yes! and also miss the train can some times find you a new intrest

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No, not at all. For the right person you make time.

Skyros · Answer

I believe “there are no coincidences, only the illusion of coincidences.” That’s from V for Vendetta.

perpetualsadness · Answer

I don't think so. If it was the right person you'd still make it work even if its the wrong time.

strateguy632 · Answer

i also don't believe that

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Nope I believe wrong person in general.

coolbreeze · Answer

Anything is possible in life.

DJB72 · Answer

Yep. Been there, done that...

anon1903 · Answer

Lol nah that's stupid

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Yeah. I believe it can happen.

Massageman · Answer

Yes - also wrong person, right time.

bradley142 · Answer

i do cause im going through it

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

I certainly do.

jaskin777 · Answer

Yes I do

Nirmroth · Answer

I do

Anonymous · Answer

no not really

WhitneySnow · Answer

It can happen

Sameone · Answer

Yes i do 100%

serious_miss419 · Answer

Yes 🙌

Clyde_123 · Answer

Nope.

JayBones · Answer

Nope I don't.

12karen · Answer

Yes I do

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, I do.

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

Minahh · Answer

No I dont

Kristierose · Answer

Yes big time

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