What's your opinion on a girl ghosting a man (this in for a story.)?

[abbyrawrs]

All options are welcome... Let's say you've know each other for a few years and yous have been fooling around from time to time. Mosty just hanging out but one day you go to use the bathroom and find that she has just left. You go to text her but find that she has deleted her number from your phone and removed herself from your snapchat. You can easily get in touch with her but how would you react to it.

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Forgot to put into that she admitted to having feeling for him a few chapters before hand. She walked because he asked if he could sleep with other woman after keeping things casual with her knowing how she feels. Sorry should of added that. That's a my bad

[Kinkyhubby]

So basically she got to close to him and started developing feelings for him, and when he said he still just want to see other people and Hang out, her feeling got hurt. I'm not thebtype of person to date to many girls at one time. But if I didn't have the same feeling she did, and didn't want it to the relationship to the next step, like she wanted. Then I would just let her go. I been in the same position that girl was in, I was in the friend zone with a girl I like. And it ended. I'm not going to watch someone that doesn't have the same feeling as me.

[MrHopper]

I had similar things happen to me over the years and never really understood why, i just pondered they got too close and knew it wouldn't happen so took them selves out the equation when i was just after friendship and they wanted something more.

You can drive your self insane trying to reason why people do things, if you have no way of knowing its best to just leave it.

[abbyrawrs]

I think that it would a different pov then the standard I want her back you see in books

[MrHopper]

I been hurt by so many people over the years i just conclude if they have chosen to not want me in their life then thats the choice they made, i just need to move on. If people like you they will make an effort to spend time with you

[abbyrawrs]

I've been though something close to it but I've never liked ghosting people. I'd rather talk it out and see if the friendship could be saved if they didn't want to give up on keeping me around. So this is a bit hard for me to be creative on. But I do understand what you mean as I have been ghosted myself in the past.

[Hulk_kitty]

I would just move on, if that's what she want to do. I am not going to force her to like me. If she has a problem with me, then at least of the decency to speak to me about it.

Otherwise f-off and don't come back into my life.

[Hulk_kitty]

You having feelings for him, is not his problem, regardless if he knows. If your still your friends, and its just casual and that's he wants but doesn't want relationship, he is still not doing anything wrong.
However, if you feel can't have a friendship with him cause of your feelings, then that's understandable. I couldn't be friends with a girl, if I had feelings for her, but I would at least tell her, my reasons, for ending the friendship, maybe keep the door open for having a friendship later down the road, when my feelings have gone for that person.

You think were a a bit childish in this situation. But understandable at the same time

[Hulk_kitty]

Plus you shouldn't tell people your feelings, unless you are absolutely sure they feel the same for you.

[abbyrawrs]

I like that your right they were friends before they started fooling so she should of been more open to talking things out as it was to stay casual I like that out look. Much help for this book.

[Hulk_kitty]

you and live and learn. Its sad that some relationships can't end on good terms. But everyone has their reason for leaving things as they want, for better or worse.

[Alex8736]

if they are just friends that only hang out,. did she give him any notice that she had feelings for him and if so what was his reaction?

[abbyrawrs]

She told him she had fallen for him due to his mixed signals of buying for food and gifts plus having for sleep over each time. They too got close, his reaction was asking if there was anyway of keeping it going and she basically said be with me or pay me but he never made a choice and she let it slide and continued with the mess they were in until he asked if he could sleep with someone else. Which she then just trys to ghost him thinking he'll never feel the same way she does.

[Guy13]

Not a nice girl...

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like it nobody should be ghosting anybody that’s cruel

[Anonymous]

When a girl Walks away, then she walks away. It's that Simple.

[Mizty]

Only if I'm not feeling him!! If I'm intrigued!! Welllll