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Is it normal to be depressed, this is the 2nd relationship heading nowhere?

We had a conversation about our goals and family and he extended things for 2024, a whole freaking year. My parents are super disappointed (and super angry with him) at how slow things are suddenly going. We were both dating with the purpose of marriage and kids. Things were laid on the table from the start. Way back in March 2022, he even gave the engagement date for August 2022 and already overdue his promise. A liar. As a result, I'm not even motivated anymore in the relationship and thinking of checking out. My past ex boyfriend would postponed things for a year and when that year came, he was full of excuses and kept postponing things for another year.

Today I felt it was the most depressing, pointless date without any purpose. Yesterday he made excuses about his financial situation and made comments about sex appeal lowering and how much I eat in comparing to him eating small portions. First of all, I'm 5'7 and average weight (140's, sometimes less than it... this is normal range) and secondly, I've never once told him about his terrible yellow teeth, his poor clothes, how he doesn't even have a car or his economic situation. Lastly, I've made it clear a couple times that I didn't care about expensive rings nor religion at all, it can be the cheapest one... it could've been a very cheap ring, extended engagement, we would've continued saving money and last a simple non-religious event but at least keep to his promise given. In fact, I told him that I would help out with the money and pay half of everything. Unlike him, I don't suffer any financial situation. I used to help him on some dates, by not allowing him to waste too much money. Sometimes, I would take turns and invite him myself.

I'm going to have a frank conversation with him soon. I'm tired of getting BS. I've even seen even poor people commit too.

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I already know when a man postpones things for a whole freaking year and starts giving excuses, means it's BS.
I feel I've put in the relationship so much for nothing, for a false date given, a false promise. This makes him a liar that doesn't keep to his words. Unlike me, if I were to make a promise of anything then I do as promise.
Is it normal to be depressed, this is the 2nd relationship heading nowhere?
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