How do you cope getting over someone you used to love?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Stay busy, no alcohol and narcotics, focus on self-improving

[Asker]

Is that how you do it?

[Guy13]

Yes it was. I got really selfish to be honest. I put in 12lbs of muscles and list an inch to 31 on waist. Updated my look and stayed generally positive. It was hard consciously choosing to say nice things…I can’t lie but I did those things. 6 months in I noticed the change as did others.

It’s like rebuilding confidence from ground level again…

[Asker]

I dont know if it would work for me that way. You sound like an interesting man also. ;)

[Guy13]

Thank you and you're sweet but "not so much". I do like people who are not afraid to have an opinion, driver personalities, self-promote, and be all-in in most things. That's the crowd I enjoy being around whether we agree or not. People can misinterpret that thereby misinterpreting me. Especially in our whiny-leaning society today. Anyway... rambling-sorry.

[Summeroflove]

Let yourself grieve

[Shamalien]

It’s been a month and I’m still trying to figure that out. Every morning I awake into pure misery. Us being apart…this was not meant to be. This is a mistake. I hope someday we find our way back into eachothers’ arms. Nothing happened between us, she just got anxious because her parents convinced her I wasn’t the one. She told me so many times that I was the one…no one has ever shown me such love. She told me she loved me 5 times as she broke up with me. I don't know how I can get over something that ended this way. I need to talk to her but I told her I didn’t wanna talk for a month and a half and now that I do she refuses. I am so hurt words cannot describe. I almost don’t want to live anymore. Almost, but not quite. I’m gunna hold on, it’s just so fucking painful…

[SlothySlob]

I go hiking to a spot I know it has good sun sets. Then I cry inside watching the sun go down.

[Anonymous]

You get out and find yourself a new lover.