How to stop loving a guy who has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well girl I’m 30 and that’s my problem too 😔
It’s hard I feel like crying even thinking of it
Currently I’m trying my best to meet new people
Remember that the right one for you is probably sad somewhere there same as you and me’
so I guess let’s make sure we find him
♥️

[Asker]

Yeah so relatable.. totally🥺✨

[JPresidente]

You either show him what he's missing or run away from him.

[Asker]

I tried to run away but it was difficult for me

[JPresidente]

Then show him what he's missing. Make him jealous and wishes he had you.

[Asker]

I messaged him few mins ago 😩

[JPresidente]

What did you tell him?

[Asker]

I asked him how he is!

[Asker]

It’s been a while i heard from him so missed him badly

[JPresidente]

Did you reveal your feelings?

[Asker]

he knows i like him so much

[Asker]

He doesn’t care much i think but I really can't help caring about him

[JPresidente]

If he knows and you're still around, he's going to be tempted. That won't help anybody involved

[JPresidente]

Sometimes if you love someone, you gotta let them go if it's not right

[Asker]

I tried to let ho of him I really tried but today I finally messaged him to know how he is

[JPresidente]

How does he feel about you?

[Asker]

He cares more about his girlfriend

[Asker]

And he never told me we’ve been intimate though

[JPresidente]

That makes it even tougher for him because now he has to block out sexual thoughts as well as feelings.

[Asker]

It’s tough for me why him

[Asker]

I never cared about anyone this much 🤦🏻‍♀️

[JPresidente]

If you've had sex then a guy is never going to forget that. Also, if it was good sex, he will revisit it a lot in his mind and the temptation will be there to do it again, especially if you're around.

[Asker]

But im really not sure what he feels about me but my feelings for him are pure and real

[JPresidente]

What you tempted to do at this point?

[JPresidente]

Did you guys date or just sleep together? Once, twice?

[Asker]

That’s a long story

[Asker]

But we had intimate moments

[Asker]

It means so much to me but I really don’t know how he feels cuz it’s been a month and these days i only text him first I really tried to stay away from him but failed 🤦🏻‍♀️ he still has a girlfriend as you can see sỗ clearly he doesn’t feel that way for him

[Asker]

That way for me*

[JPresidente]

Well, I can only tell you from my viewpoint, if it were me and you've had intimate moments but I have a girlfriend, you are going to be present in my mind and I would be thinking about those intimate moments around you and wondering "what if they happen again" and it would be hard to focus on my girlfriend somewhat. You need to let him go.

[Asker]

It’s really hard for me 😭😭

[Asker]

But you would have messaged me right at least first to know how i am?

[JPresidente]

I'm sorry this has happened to you and you feel this way. It's gotta be frustrating.

[Asker]

He can't even do that for me at least I deserve that from his side

[JPresidente]

He's probably trying to stay true to his girlfriend and possibly move on from you entirely is my guess.

[Asker]

And i just text him first cause that urge to talk with him is so strong and I don’t see if its right or wrong i just have to know that he's okay

[JPresidente]

I hate being blunt but you gotta move on girl. I feel you 'cause I've been where you are before and it sucks. Find a new guy.

[Asker]

Yeah i think that too

[Asker]

What about the recent message i sent him 🤦🏻‍♀️

[JPresidente]

Message me later if you want to let out any frustration and talk further.

[Asker]

Thank you so much

[JPresidente]

Leave the message as is and take a walk and get some fresh air.

[JPresidente]

You bet.

[Emanon25]

find another guy

[Anonymous]

Find yourself a lover.

[Danny_dan92]

By not being a hoe

[Asker]

Be my hoe

[Danny_dan92]

Huh?

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[Danny_dan92]

That was a response filled with energy