Why do men cheat on beautiful women?

[Stoner710]

Never understood cheating I’ve a few women (mainly heavier then me I’m 185-195) temptation always arises but I’d rather be loyal. Now there’s 1 thing I can’t resist and then my lady Marry Jane. Which what ended my last relationship just because I was hang out with my friend who loved marry Jane as well.

now when it comes to women like Emily Ratajkowski (two years older or hell she’s Heidi Klum 10 years old then me ). If I got a girl half as beautiful as these women and share my conservatives/agnostic values I would be loyal to her until death (preferably mine cuz who wants to live without there beautiful wife which agrees Beautiful like Guinevere) why cheat your the luckiest guy in the world for finding a beautiful women who will remain loyal (few kids is a plus i get name my daughter the women can name the son I’m stuck on yuki Hana it means snow flower in Japanese

[Finchie40]

Selfish people Cheat cheating is a selfish act period. which guys and girls both do. A man mainly cheats on a woman mainly because she isn’t giving him the intimacy and affection that he craves , Most girls don’t realize how important intimacy and affection is to a man , She will hold it over his head like he is a pig and use it as a bargaining agreement when before it wasn’t an issue. when a man is constantly denied intimacy and affection from his girl, he starts to feel resentment towards her, he feels unloved and unwanted , he feels she doesn’t find him attractive anymore and doesn’t desire him and respect him all these things will make a man have a wandering eye and to be open to a woman that makes him feel good , that compliments him that boosts his ego , When a woman withholds intimacy and affection from her man she is damaging the relationship bottom line , because she is only thinking of herself , which makes her a selfish person as well , A man will try to express his feelings to his girl and his concerns about the relationship with her so if she doesn’t hear him and understand him and try to fix it then he is more than likely going to fuck another girl seeking that intimacy and affection that he craves Now if his girl doesn’t deny him sex and affection and is loving and caring to him and respects him and he still cheats on her? Then he is a piece of shit and she is best to kick him to the curb. A woman mainly cheats because she feels her emotions aren’t being met , she assumes her man doesn’t really value her or she feels she can’t look up to her man the way she use to , he lacks in areas that now turn her on , so she will be attracted to a guy that she feels has status to realizing status means shit but to most girls it does , if he has a good paying job, or he is real handy , or others look up to him, if he is a boss a leader etc She will be drawn to this over her partner because in her mind he lacks those traits, so she will spread her legs to a guy mainly for his status and traits , thinking this man os going to love her the way she wants to be loved in her fantasy world from all the lifetime movies she watches. Little do girls realize , that guy is just going to bang her and have his way with her , but he will not fully commit to her , a man isn’t going to give his heart to a girl that cheats on her partner but he will have no problem fucking her brains out and using her , I fucked a few married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , the second I found out they were married I kicked them to the curb where they belong. No guy wants to marry a whore , if he does then he isn’t a man he is a sumo. So a girl that can’t stay faithful to her man is a selfish person as well that only cares about herself , she is grasping onto something that isn’t really there , when a guy cheats he is grasping for sex and affection that his partner isn’t giving him he isn’t grasping on to love. He is grasping onto finally feeling wanted. All in all , all cheating is bad and wrong to do to someone , but most people are selfish and only really care about themselves, They will never experience true love until
They learn to point fingers at themselves and realizing they are the piece shit , If I cheat on a girl , my ass is ending it with her right then and there , I am not going to go back to her and act like I love her when I already answered my own question that I don’t , I am not a perfect person but I learned from my experiences on what I am looking for in a relationship , I will not commit To a girl that can’t commit to me and not remove selfishness for me like I do for her , and that can’t resist temptation the same way I do for her as well, if she can’t value me or respect me and stand by my side no matter what then she isn’t the girl for me and she can go back to the streets where she belongs

[JasminTheRose]

Best reply I read soo far.

[Finchie40]

Thank you , it’s just how I see things from my own experiences in relationships and what I have witnessed with other’s , Selfishness to me is one of the biggest relationship killers , if you can’t admit to yourself that you can be wrong then you will never experience true love with someone. Resisting temptation comes natural to us when we
First give our heart to someone, when that someone shits on your heart and betrays you , you then have to learn in yourself on how to resist temptation because now you are broken and your trust has been destroyed , so to repair our hearts we have to understand not everyone is a piece of shit , only you are
The piece of shit if you keep continuing to cheat on someone new that is looking for the same , After my first true love cheated on me it destroyed me , I started to not trust girls whatsoever , I labeled girls as all selfish people so I started to be selfish with them and just hooking up with random girls getting them in bed , lying to them just to get laid to realize how much of a piece of shit I was being , it wasn’t those Girls’ fault that my ex was a whore , so I began to have an open mind about things and realized someone can only love me if I love them back the same , Removing my selfishness for them as I expect them to do for me , resisting temptations for them the same way I want them to do for me , we can’t force someone to love us but we can treat them the same way we want to be treated , Removing your own selfishness for someone is showing that person that you only have eyes for
Them , when you can’t
Remove that selfishness for
Your partner they will not be able to do it for you. Put yourself in a relationship with someone that loves and
Cares about you, then put yourself
In a room with someone that is absolutely gorgeous or hot to your eyes , that wants you and you know no one will find out? Will you resist that temptation for your partner?

[JasminTheRose]

Happened to me and I resisted it for years because cheating is a lack of character and it is unfair to my husband. Who would I be if I am a weak person? Just like aristotle said:"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is the victory over self."

[Finchie40]

Then you are definitely a keeper , sadly most people today aren’t this way , they only think what is best for them , they don’t wear their partners shoes like they should be, it’s their way or no way, never admitting to themselves that they are wrong , it’s always someone else’s fault , when someone you love and commit to back stand you or betrays you from their own selfishness or insecurities they have no right being in a relationship with someone because they only think of themselves, and sadly they will have a reputation of being a whore. Yes people get bored yes people
Feel resentments yes people feel like they are missing out on things and yes partners can be abusive and selfish to their partners but all in all you fix it not run to someone else for validation , If you cheat on your partner then you should end it right then and there, you already answered your own question that you don’t love and value them so why lie to their face knowing you are lying to yourself

[Summeroflove]

People who cheat are just… Cheaters. Same with some women who are with amazing men.

Not all men cheat though

[AshViper]

It's human nature to believe the "grass is greener on the other side". Mostly this saying is applied to leaving one job for a seemingly better one (which usually is not the case).

But it also applies to partners. Believing someone is "better" than what you have & as this belief is typically based on lust* it's often a failure in relation to a prior relationship.

Take a conversation I had this evening with a guy I'd met in passing & had gone on one date with. He tells me that he's been talking to multiple women and of those women one he has been talking to longer than everyone else and they're "getting serious".

He was literally playing the field looking for something / someone better to come along and as he hadn't at the time decided to go with the woman he'd been talking to the longest. I honestly feel sorry for her if they get involved as he's more than likely a cheat.

*Lust makes you believe that someone is better than they are, can do no wrong, etc. It's why some people who cheat actually do regret screwing some douchebag or cheap tramp when compared to their wife or husband.

[Katebfun]

Because we're not programmed to be loyal it's a choice one makes everyday. Most people are stuck in unhealthy love unions where they are not equally yoked. Therefore men easily cheat, it doesn't matter how beautiful a women is on the outside either, in the end their still a flawed human with insecurities.

[Stoner710]

fair but when your programmed to be loyal the hard worker but no women will except ones that are 20 years old are you what does that leave you

[Alchemizt]

I don't get it either. There's this one girl, she is so beautiful and we seem to share same values and music taste. But unfortunately there's a huge gap between us, so there's no way we can be together. And if she was mine, I don't think I'd ever be able to think about anyone else, ever.

[CoolCatMar1]

Some men can have the most gorgeous women alive and still cheat because they aren't too picky or like to make people suffer

[LiamJHayden]

Different people have different standards and values, so it should not be at all surprising that cheaters will cheat on whomever they are with, even on extremely attractive partners.

[KatherineJ]

Asking the obvious question in reverse-why does anyone cheat?

[Stoner710]

From what I understand men and women cheat for different reasons. Men tend to cheat because we’re horny. The issue with the women we want to marry and women we want to fuck. Women tend to cheat because there man isn’t emotionally satisfying them. Now women logic for cheating is more sounds then men’s cheating.

[Fuentes]

Never chested if I got a post ass chick with a cute face & leaves me alone, I'm not trippin to cheat.

[Fuentes]

Cheated**

[ThatCanucker]

Probably the same reason that people who have wealth beyond what they could ever spend in a lifetime want more and more money.

[1cuteblackk]

Some people like cheating because they’re not satisfied with what they have.

[Sevenpointfive]

the simple answer is because they can

[Anonymous]

Men are as loyal as their options

[Akam93]

Because their horny.

[Anonymous]

All these men care about is pussy.

[jimmy2]

Beautiful women cheat on men
So much attention

[barn_stormer]

boredom

[CoolCatMar1]

Not a good excuse

[barn_stormer]

@CoolCatMar1 sure it is

[CoolCatMar1]

Nope it isn't

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Wanna'b plater/hound