I have questions about life after marriage?

[Anonymous]

I have some questions about my wife the reason i dont ask her us she would just get mad and dont answer me. I wanna be a good partner but it cannot go on like this please help me

[Apple1996]

Okay what's the question here?

[Asker]

We dont have sex anymore its been a month now, i brought it up twice once it made her sad the other time angry and i swear to everything holy i dont say it badly im so careful not to offend her in any way. Sometimes the excuse is that she's stressed and cannot be arousedthe other times she just says not today lets do it tomorrow

[Apple1996]

Oh that is weird. Were you guys having frequent sex before that?

[Asker]

More or less. at least once or twice a week. Now its like once a month or 2 months

[Asker]

Also sometimes she doesn't like me to touch her nipples for example like she's sensitive or sth which suspects me that maybe she was molested in the past or worse that she's not telling me. Its all just bizzare. Because she's stressed all the time even tho we li e comfortably now. Even more bizzare is that she act like everything is normal she spoils me a lot and truly loves me its so obvious... anyway if you know anyone please share this post or ask them please please please

[Apple1996]

Hmm yeah you'd have to get her to talk. Like therapy. But something definitely sounds off

[Anonymous]

What are your questions?

[Asker]

One topic is We're not having sex at all, she's always stressed or says lets do it tomorrow or im sensitive and other excuses. Its been a month and i simly dont know the reason i tried google no good answer. I start slowly with just kissing and hugging and i swear im good in bed and give her unconditional love but its not working. I brought it up twice and she got mad that she's just not in the mood or stressed

[TrippyStarry]

Maybe she wants you to marry her first before she gives you unlimited cookies. Be reasonable. Women want marriage.

[Asker]

We are married

[TrippyStarry]

Then you need to sit her down and communicate how important this part of your lives are to you. When people are stressed, it’s normally the optional things in life that get sidelined. The important things remain, like making food or going to work. If you allow her to see this thing is just as important as these other essential things, then your problem will be solved, hopefully. Best wishes!

[NaughtyBrooke]

What is the question though luv? 🤔

[Asker]

We dont have sex anymore its been a month now, i brought it up twice once it made her sad the other time angry and i swear to everything holy i dont say it badly im so careful not to offend her in any way. Sometimes the excuse is that she's stressed and cannot be aroused the other times she just says not today lets do it tomorrow